Is this guy for real or just messed up in the head?!
Question: Need your help. Met someone who's gotten really complicated 2 figure out. I'm getting ready 2 dump him. I need your expertise first. The person I met-I've been talking 2 for almost 4 months. We've talked about a lot of things & his biggest thing was being completely honest w/ each other. He made it very clear he detests those that play games. He also said he doesn't play games,Okay, I've been honest & I'm not into playing games either. He, on the other hand has not been totally honest w/me on several things & has already disappointed me by not following through. He's canceled 2x's or changed his mind when we were to see each other right at the last minute. Not even an apology was given. I breakup up w/him & keeps calling 2 try and mend things. This person takes anti-depressants, (20 yrs). Could this be the reason he's goofy? He's confused me a number of times by saying something & then saying I misunderstood, WTF! He's already introduced me to his 9 yr daut'r. Go ahead and dump him?
Answers: Need your help. Met someone who's gotten really complicated 2 figure out. I'm getting ready 2 dump him. I need your expertise first. The person I met-I've been talking 2 for almost 4 months. We've talked about a lot of things & his biggest thing was being completely honest w/ each other. He made it very clear he detests those that play games. He also said he doesn't play games,Okay, I've been honest & I'm not into playing games either. He, on the other hand has not been totally honest w/me on several things & has already disappointed me by not following through. He's canceled 2x's or changed his mind when we were to see each other right at the last minute. Not even an apology was given. I breakup up w/him & keeps calling 2 try and mend things. This person takes anti-depressants, (20 yrs). Could this be the reason he's goofy? He's confused me a number of times by saying something & then saying I misunderstood, WTF! He's already introduced me to his 9 yr daut'r. Go ahead and dump him?
yeah, he sounds like he has issues. The sooner you get away from him the easier it will be for him to detach himself from you and maybe on to someone else. If you're having drama now, it will not get any better. He will probably have ups and downs a lot. You probably don't need that.
u should let him down really slow and easy...
kinda ween im off of you i ges cuz of the pills
if he wasnt then you should just dump him now but he is so dont
There is trust issue going on. But, you haven't known him that long. What does your gut instinct tell you ?? Granted, he has a history of depression but, to cancel plans at the last minute, especially without an apology, is not acceptable ( in my opinion). How difficult can it be to say, " I'm sorry but, I cannot make it tonight" ?? How would he react if you did this to him ?? You need to improve your communication skills with him so that you are clear as to where your relationship stands. Maybe he has a fear of commitment ?? I hope that this helps some and Good Luck !!
Ruth
ok he seems to like you but hes messed up from the pills i dated someone like that once. This all depends on YOU. Does he treat you good? Is he nice to you? Does he do special things for you? Does he make you feel special? If he does then you need to figure out if you want to be with him and if you really care about him- if so don't be so quick to dump! Talk to this guy find out what he's depressed about whay is he taking the drugs. You will have to listen and not interrupt, and try to help him. He seems to care about you if he's trying to mend things, he just don't know how to deal with his feelings, you will have to help him with that. If you care about him you will have to be there for him and let him know you'll be there for him don't just say it mean what you say. You also need to get him to stop taking the pills, and this will be hard because hes been taking them for so long but you can do it, just lesser and lesser pills each day. And if he knows there is someoe who gives a crap he will be more easily weaned from the pills, but you have to be kind, patient, and understanding because he will get very moody- withdrawls. If you cant do these things you probly dont care much for him and you should move on.
If you feel confused, let him go. Someone you get involved with should support you in your strengths and sometimes push your buttons a little in order to make you grow. Confusion means on some level your intuition is not OK with this situation.
Why is this Question on Alternative Medicine ?
Maybe he should dump you...
Here's a hint, anyone who stresses to you the importance of not playing games and honesty, probably plays games with the mind and lies.
He's proven this to be true.
I'd dump him and change your number so he doesn't keep calling.
The choice is yours. no body is perfect!
However please note that this question should be placed in the right category.
Hey, Kalos...why don't you suck a fart out of my asshole..
Metalgods...don't listen to these fools....anyway, the only advise I can give to you is follow your heart