Herbs for hitting the big-O...Girls only...Help!?!


Question: Herbs for hitting the big-O......Girls only......Help!.?
Ok,so this is kinda weird asking this......but......I am having touble getting off..
I am only 19 and have been married 1 year and I have only ever been with one man and hes awesome!!!! And my husband will do whatever I want him to....hes not the problem its me,but its like I get right to the edge of hitting it and then it just stops,so I only really get off maybe 3 out of 8 times we do it.. and it takes alot to get me "in the mood"......I dont understand why, I have alot of female problems (endrometriouis,PMS,cyst on my overies..) and sometimes it hurts to do it,but still, I should be getting off..
Dose anyone know of a good herb I can take to help be more horny.? I dont want to have to go to a DR.. or anything I just want something to give me a little extra kick..
Please help........Health Question & Answer


Answers:
Ok, sounds like there are a few issues here that will not be cured by simply taking an herb and Marajuana is not it.. Marajuana can actually numb your senses and make your problem worse..

First of all some of the conditions you have can effect your hormones and consequently your sex drive, some of the conditions you have can affect your mood which effects your sex drive..

Some of the conditions you have cause physical pain which can affect your sex drive and your level of pleasure during sex.. If you are in pain, it is hard to relax and focus on the pleasure..

I would highly recommend seeing an accupuncture and chinese medicine practitioner to help you with the endometriosis, PMS and cystic ovaries, since you do not want to see a doctor..

Meanwhile, red clover herb taken by capsule can help to support your female organs and assist your body in balancing your hormones..

Creating some stress free time where you can be alone with your husband and enjoy him without being under pressure to have sex or to have an orgasm can help.. When you are handling the responsibilities of life together, much of that is stressful and not very sexy so life can just drain your sex drive and distract you from your pleasure..

Having some time and space where you just enjoy eachother and do not discuss any of the stressors of life is important..

also, learn, by yourself, what kind of stimulation and touching you like and what it takes for you to make yourself orgasm.. Then teach your husband.. There are books about this to help you if you are not sure where to go with this.. One that used to be popular was called "For Yourself" I can't remember the author..

Spend time with your husband, exploring different ways of touching eachother and discuss which ones each of you like and don't like.. also, explore and discuss with him the types of things that turn each of you on or off.. The things that you notice either spark or kill your sex drive and discuss how you can work with that knowledge to make sex more satifying for both of you..

For instance: do you find that you may be feeling a little horney but then the two of you sit and watch TV after dinner and by the time yo are done with the television, you are tired or no longer interested.. TV can be a huge sex killer.. You may choose to have a conversation or exchange a massage instead of TV or get straight to the sex and watch TV after.. Do you find that the sight of him vacuuming or fixing something around the house turns you on, does it turn you off when he starts groping at you the moment you walk in the door.?

Whatever these things are, notice.. Develop an open communication with him about it.. Keeping it positive, because you love him and you want for the two of you to have a great and satisfying sex life for your whole lives and you want to learn how to do it with him..

also, while it is possible and fun to have lots of orgasms all the time, it is not necessary to come every time.. Sometimes you can just enjoy the experience as it is and not put pressure on yourself.. It is also ok not to be in the mood all the time.. If you honor your feelings and just say no when you don't want sex and your husband MUST accept your no answer graciously with no pouting or anger or pressure.. If you are true to yourself and say no when you really don't feel up to it then you will enjoy it more when you do feel up to it and sex will remain a beautifu, fun and loving act, not an obligation that you must perform on demand and love it even when you are in pain and not really wanting it..

It sounds like your husband is a good man and will honor this.. Again talk with him, sex is a form of communication.. The more ways you learn to communicate, to share your love, to enjoy each other and to help each other the better your sex will become..

In a committed relationship where both partners want to make eachother happy and are willing to talk, listen and learn, the sex will just get better and better throughout the years.. You have a lifetime to build this together, have fun with it..Health Question & Answer

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Well, getting off is different than being horny...... I just wanted to point that out up front.. If you're looking for something to make you horny, you should try Horny Goat Weed.. Yeah, it sounds weird, but it lives up to it's name ;-)
As far as other natural products for sexual health, some of the most popular ones for women are Avena Sativa, Damiana, Dong Quai, L-Arginine, Muira Puama, Chasteberry (Vitex), and/or Black Cohosh.. You can try out any combination of those as we have thousands of customers that take any combination of these on a regular basis.. Good luck!Health Question & Answer

I would totally recommend trying Rhodiola! The central ingredient is rhodiola rosea, an Arctic herb used as an all

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