Anal Sex and Emotional Issues!?!
Question: Anal Sex and Emotional Issues!.?
I'm sixteen and had anal sex.A couple days after wards I had a sore throat. Yesterday i discovered that he used to talk to my friend before he was talking to me and she caught a urinary infection. it could possibly him. My sister says to get tested.
Emotionally,What should I do.He totally tried play meyme. It really hurts to be taken advantage of.I really didn't like him that much but it's possible that he was just using me.Should I confront him on this. Should I seek revenge or forget about him.?.?
also how much will it cost for a Planned Parenthood STD test.?Health Question & Answer
Emotionally,What should I do.He totally tried play meyme. It really hurts to be taken advantage of.I really didn't like him that much but it's possible that he was just using me.Should I confront him on this. Should I seek revenge or forget about him.?.?
also how much will it cost for a Planned Parenthood STD test.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
You had ANAL sex at 16 years old with a guy you didn't like that much...and to boot you are not familiar with his past sexual history. Not only that, but you seem to think that you need to get tested for an STD solely because your friend has a urinary tract infection. I think you need to take a class on sex. Children can get urinary tract infections...and they are most often times NOT contagious, therefore I highly doubt she "caught" one.
During sexual intercourse, the bacteria in the vaginal area may be pushed into the urethra and eventually end up in the bladder, where urine provides a good environment for the bacteria to grow. That MAY have cause her UTI, but there are other ways that she could have gotten one as well. And I don't understand (like the other person stated) how your friend "caught" a UTI by talking to a guy.
This is really reckless and can be detrimental to you in the future. I advise you to get an STD test (since you are clearly sexually active an worried about your throat issue) but I also think that you should pick up a pamphlet on sex in general or possibly the female and male body. Once again, you are 16 years old..I hate to sound like an after school program but...honestly...
If you do have an STD (God forbid) I hope you will be more responsible with the next person you sleep (wich I'm hoping is not casual) with than you were this time. :/Health Question & Answer
During sexual intercourse, the bacteria in the vaginal area may be pushed into the urethra and eventually end up in the bladder, where urine provides a good environment for the bacteria to grow. That MAY have cause her UTI, but there are other ways that she could have gotten one as well. And I don't understand (like the other person stated) how your friend "caught" a UTI by talking to a guy.
This is really reckless and can be detrimental to you in the future. I advise you to get an STD test (since you are clearly sexually active an worried about your throat issue) but I also think that you should pick up a pamphlet on sex in general or possibly the female and male body. Once again, you are 16 years old..I hate to sound like an after school program but...honestly...
If you do have an STD (God forbid) I hope you will be more responsible with the next person you sleep (wich I'm hoping is not casual) with than you were this time. :/Health Question & Answer
"Emotionally,What should I do."
The thing to do is to learn from the experience - not just about fickle and promiscuous males, but about yourself and what you want in life.
Now you know why it is such a great idea to wait for a man, not a boy, and to keep your clothes on and your legs together until you are in a committed relationship - as in marriage, or at least, engaged.
If you had anal sex ONLY, I wouldn't be concerned about testing. Pathogens (germs) don't migrate from the anus to the throat. In regard to another female developing a urinary tract infection - you don't quite make sense to me. You say he "talked" to her. One cannot contract a urinary tract infection from conversation.Health Question & Answer
The thing to do is to learn from the experience - not just about fickle and promiscuous males, but about yourself and what you want in life.
Now you know why it is such a great idea to wait for a man, not a boy, and to keep your clothes on and your legs together until you are in a committed relationship - as in marriage, or at least, engaged.
If you had anal sex ONLY, I wouldn't be concerned about testing. Pathogens (germs) don't migrate from the anus to the throat. In regard to another female developing a urinary tract infection - you don't quite make sense to me. You say he "talked" to her. One cannot contract a urinary tract infection from conversation.Health Question & Answer
first you need to go take care of yourself get tested vand make sure you are ok.
also i dont get it how do you have anal sex with someone that you dont like that much.
i think you should confront him and just forget about him after revenge isnt always the answer and am sure he will get whats coming to him when the time is right.Health Question & Answer
also i dont get it how do you have anal sex with someone that you dont like that much.
i think you should confront him and just forget about him after revenge isnt always the answer and am sure he will get whats coming to him when the time is right.Health Question & Answer
He probably was using you but that doesnt mean he gave you something. Wait a couple of days and see if you feel better. If not go to the doctor and get some antiobotocs. You should have listened to youe heart and not your coochie. But hey we have all done it so dont beat yourself up over it. Just learn a lesson from it. Good luck!Health Question & Answer