Should I call and ask him if he has herpes or any other diseases?!
Question: Should I call and ask him if he has herpes or any other diseases.?
I had sex with this guy on Halloween thinking he would want to have some sort of relationship weather it be just sleeping together or monogomas. I have always had a little crush on him and we have hooked up many and fooled around many times before but never sex only make out sessions basically and I gave him a hand job when I was 15. I'm 22 now.
Afterword, like the next day or so it started burning really bad when I pee'd and I thought it was just a yeast infection so I tried to home treat it with orange juice and IB profin and cranberry juice, but it wouldn't go away. So, I went to plan parenthood to get tested for a urinary tract infection. I started taking the pills but missed a day. However I have finished the pills. my friend gave me a spare one on the day I forgot. I don't know I think I may have missed 2 days. But my vagina is still burning and now I'm begining to think that it's not only when I pee. I feel really under the weather in my neck and stomach area I feel slightly nauseous. I went to look at my vagina and I could swear I saw little bumps but I'm not sure if the bumps were normal or due to irritation or what.
I was really drunk when I had sex with this guy and let him take the condom off when we did it because that's what most guys seem to want to do when they have sex with me. He told me he loved me while we were having sex and I thought it was really wierd cause it's not like we were dating or anything I just saw him at the bar. He was supposed to take me home cause I was so drunk but he took me to his house. I'm pretty sure I was more than willing to go though. I was wasted.
also I have heard in the past that he has had syphilius and herpes and genital warts. I can't believe I slept with him but I thought we had like a real life connection. I thought it would be special.
His friend gave me his number so I could try and get ahold of him before I was worried about the stds and I texted him to see if he wanted to hang out, but he never wrote me back. Now, I have his number still and want to call him and ask him if he has any std's and was having an outbreak at the time when we had sex. He didn't seem drunk so if he did he had sex with me knowing he did and that he was going to give it to me. I just don't understand why someone should do that!
I'm really scared and upset that I might now have an std and I want to find out but I don't know if I should call him or not because he never gave me his number and he obviously ignored my text message. So what do I do just wait for planned parent hood to text me or should I call him and just find out.? Health Question & Answer
Afterword, like the next day or so it started burning really bad when I pee'd and I thought it was just a yeast infection so I tried to home treat it with orange juice and IB profin and cranberry juice, but it wouldn't go away. So, I went to plan parenthood to get tested for a urinary tract infection. I started taking the pills but missed a day. However I have finished the pills. my friend gave me a spare one on the day I forgot. I don't know I think I may have missed 2 days. But my vagina is still burning and now I'm begining to think that it's not only when I pee. I feel really under the weather in my neck and stomach area I feel slightly nauseous. I went to look at my vagina and I could swear I saw little bumps but I'm not sure if the bumps were normal or due to irritation or what.
I was really drunk when I had sex with this guy and let him take the condom off when we did it because that's what most guys seem to want to do when they have sex with me. He told me he loved me while we were having sex and I thought it was really wierd cause it's not like we were dating or anything I just saw him at the bar. He was supposed to take me home cause I was so drunk but he took me to his house. I'm pretty sure I was more than willing to go though. I was wasted.
also I have heard in the past that he has had syphilius and herpes and genital warts. I can't believe I slept with him but I thought we had like a real life connection. I thought it would be special.
His friend gave me his number so I could try and get ahold of him before I was worried about the stds and I texted him to see if he wanted to hang out, but he never wrote me back. Now, I have his number still and want to call him and ask him if he has any std's and was having an outbreak at the time when we had sex. He didn't seem drunk so if he did he had sex with me knowing he did and that he was going to give it to me. I just don't understand why someone should do that!
I'm really scared and upset that I might now have an std and I want to find out but I don't know if I should call him or not because he never gave me his number and he obviously ignored my text message. So what do I do just wait for planned parent hood to text me or should I call him and just find out.? Health Question & Answer
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You have got to try to be smarter about the sex. Who knows what diseases you have acquired now. You need to go get tested for everything and then let the whole thing be a lesson if you don't wind up with AIDS. Why do you think he is not calling you back.?Health Question & Answer
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I think you should call him and ask and refresh his memory that you two had unprotected sex and that now you are having complications it seems from that. Alot of people have been in your position and if you're mature enough to have sex he should be mature enough to answer your questions about his sexual history and infections. Good Luck.Health Question & Answer
Unfortunately, the decisions when make when we're drunk last a lot longer than the buzz.
From the sounds of it, he is not the most stand up type of guy. You can try to contact him, but it sounds as if he is avoiding you for a reason...more than likely, because he knows what you want to talk to him about.
If you did contract herpes (unfortunately, it sounds like a good possibility), there are many resources and support groups out there. Its not the end of the world, but you need to get as much information as possible on things so that you are know what you are dealing with
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From the sounds of it, he is not the most stand up type of guy. You can try to contact him, but it sounds as if he is avoiding you for a reason...more than likely, because he knows what you want to talk to him about.
If you did contract herpes (unfortunately, it sounds like a good possibility), there are many resources and support groups out there. Its not the end of the world, but you need to get as much information as possible on things so that you are know what you are dealing with
Good Luck to youHealth Question & Answer
Ok i know it's hard to confront him about this but if you heard that he may possibly have these diseases, then you need to ask him about them and most importantly get yourself checked out for everything. I know you were drunk so you were incompetent, but It's hard to trust anybody these days. Just call the guy and if he don't answer, leave him a voice mail telling him to call you cause this sounds seriousHealth Question & Answer