Do u think my boyfriend is right...?!
Question: Do u think my boyfriend is right....?
weve been together for some years now,, and ive put on weight over the years and hes been telling me to lose weight for ages . its not like im obese i weigh 73 kilos , 5,5ft tall, 1.65cm tall. hes really meen to me about my weight and tells me hes sick of waiting for me to lose weight and if i dont lose weight then hel leave me and hes serious . i know hes really selfish and careless, but do u think im over weight and i shud lose weight or if hes rightHealth Question & Answer
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Your boyfriend is lying, he wont leave you. He is trying to manipulate you by turning his pathetic insecurities around on you. he is the one that is scared of being alone and scared that you will realise you are too good for him!
No real man would ever suggest that sort of thing.
Its not your weight thats the problem, its him.
If he really wanted you to be at your physical best, he would be enouraging and adoring you to give you strength and confidence.Health Question & Answer
No real man would ever suggest that sort of thing.
Its not your weight thats the problem, its him.
If he really wanted you to be at your physical best, he would be enouraging and adoring you to give you strength and confidence.Health Question & Answer
I am so sorry that your boyfriend is so cruel to you. It's NOT up to him to make you lose weight, that can only come from you. It sounds very much like he is being controlling and blackmailing you, saying if you don't do what he wants, he will leave you. You need to ask yourself if you really want to be with someone like this.
Your height/weight ratio gives you a BMI of 26.29 which is slightly overweight. Normal BMI range is 18.5-24.9. The only reason you should lose weight is for YOU and YOUR health NOT because your boyfriend says so.Health Question & Answer
Your height/weight ratio gives you a BMI of 26.29 which is slightly overweight. Normal BMI range is 18.5-24.9. The only reason you should lose weight is for YOU and YOUR health NOT because your boyfriend says so.Health Question & Answer
The lady is about 160lbs, and just 5'5''.
That is getting big.
Her boyfriend may be exasperated for blameworthy reasons or for perfectly sound ones.
Of course his motives may be grossly sensual, base, blinkered, and skin-deep. Then again, for all I know, he may be a far-sighted man, who is well aware that his would-be life partner has no thought for the quality of her own life, and probably even less thought for his. How distressing to think, 'Another ten years, and I'll be wheeling her to the MacDonald's in a wheel-barrow... for dessert... ten years more, and I'll be wheeling around her IV-tree... for bath-room breaks...'Health Question & Answer
That is getting big.
Her boyfriend may be exasperated for blameworthy reasons or for perfectly sound ones.
Of course his motives may be grossly sensual, base, blinkered, and skin-deep. Then again, for all I know, he may be a far-sighted man, who is well aware that his would-be life partner has no thought for the quality of her own life, and probably even less thought for his. How distressing to think, 'Another ten years, and I'll be wheeling her to the MacDonald's in a wheel-barrow... for dessert... ten years more, and I'll be wheeling around her IV-tree... for bath-room breaks...'Health Question & Answer
You should break up with him. Honestly because he should care about you and love you for who you are. I understand that at some levels physical attractions are neccessary to some, however hurting and threatening to leave you because of your apperance will not make things better. Remember you come first. You can loose weight no problem, but does that mean he will love you or care for you when you look how he wants you to.? Instead of you having a choice.?Health Question & Answer
i think you should give him a good kick up his backside!!! its not about if he wants you to lose weight its about if you want to and if you want to for the right reasons!!! you will put the weight back on if you dont really want it off quite quickly cuz it takes alot to maintain weight once you have lost it.... if you do want to, why not tell him u want a break... lose the weight and show him what hes missing then take him back on your terms... dont be bullied!!!Health Question & Answer
Well, my suggestion is to do what you feel is better. If you like who you are, then you're fine. But if you really like him and want to be with him, losing some kilos wouldn't hurt. If he's getting on your nerves about this whole weight thing, just talk to him about it, or break up with him and find someone new who likes who you are.Health Question & Answer
The formula for losing weight is easy - consume less and workout more - the difficulties surface when we in reality try to put that into practice! There are loads of stumbling blocks in the big wide world aren't there.?! I found some good advice by checking out the site in the box below, they have loads of instruction, I melted away 5 pounds by doing as they advised.Health Question & Answer
yes
for 5'5" you should be 115-125lbs (52kilos-57kilos) not 160lbs (73kilos)
healthy weight chart (females only)
give/take 5-10lbs depending on age, cup size and muscle mass
5'0" = 100lbs
5'1" = 105lbs
5'2" = 110lbs
5'3" = 115lbs
5'4" = 120lbs
5'5" = 125lbs
5'6" = 130lbs
5'7" = 135lbs
5'8" = 140lbs
5'9" = 145lbs
This is based on adult BMI charts for womenHealth Question & Answer
for 5'5" you should be 115-125lbs (52kilos-57kilos) not 160lbs (73kilos)
healthy weight chart (females only)
give/take 5-10lbs depending on age, cup size and muscle mass
5'0" = 100lbs
5'1" = 105lbs
5'2" = 110lbs
5'3" = 115lbs
5'4" = 120lbs
5'5" = 125lbs
5'6" = 130lbs
5'7" = 135lbs
5'8" = 140lbs
5'9" = 145lbs
This is based on adult BMI charts for womenHealth Question & Answer
Check your BMI (which is measure of body mass) here
http://www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk/magazine/int...
If you do it it will show that you are overweight but not 'obese'. Your friend only wants you to be more healthy. Obviously you will also look better. If you think that is not fair, tell him that and he should respect your decision.Health Question & Answer
http://www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk/magazine/int...
If you do it it will show that you are overweight but not 'obese'. Your friend only wants you to be more healthy. Obviously you will also look better. If you think that is not fair, tell him that and he should respect your decision.Health Question & Answer
Your BMI is 26.8 which certainly makes you somewhat overweight. He does not sound as i he is being very kind or polite, and true lovers love their partners for what they are, not what they want them to be. However it would not hurt to watch your diet a bit and take some more exercise.Health Question & Answer
Don't just wait for him to dump you, you dump him. You don't need that idiot. If anyone tells you something like that, then they are someone you don't need in your life. Stop sticking around with him, he's ignorant. Don't take anything that guy says to heart.Health Question & Answer
what!!!!!
ugh darling, dont loose weight for him! do it for yourself, IF you want!
if you dont feel happy about your weight, then start weightloss, but if youre happy with your weight then dont change! especially for a bloke!
never, ever, ever let a man control you.
xxxHealth Question & Answer
ugh darling, dont loose weight for him! do it for yourself, IF you want!
if you dont feel happy about your weight, then start weightloss, but if youre happy with your weight then dont change! especially for a bloke!
never, ever, ever let a man control you.
xxxHealth Question & Answer
Stupid reason to break up with someone...over weight that is. You should know looks will fade as you get older no matter what. If he is that superficial then I'd get rid of him now. Loose weight because you want to for yourself you will have more success if that is the case.Health Question & Answer
i don't know but tbh you boyfriend sounds like an insensitive jerk and i think you should leave him! its probably much better for you and also it shows that idiot that you are not his pet that he cant order aroundHealth Question & Answer
Okay if your happy then dont change
but if you wanna loose weight generally not because of him but for your own decision then you should do it
but dont do it just for him do it too make yourself happyHealth Question & Answer
but if you wanna loose weight generally not because of him but for your own decision then you should do it
but dont do it just for him do it too make yourself happyHealth Question & Answer
I have no idea what 73 kilos is to lbs, but just be healthy. If he can't accept you for you, dump him.Health Question & Answer
If he doesn't love you for who you are then leave him.Health Question & Answer
he sounds like a shallow, stupid little boy.
if I were you I would dump him and find a real man who can appreciate your beauty!Health Question & Answer
if I were you I would dump him and find a real man who can appreciate your beauty!Health Question & Answer
no!! u r not over weight!! r u comfortable at the weight you r.? if so then don't lose weight! he sounds an a*** hole! for saying that, he should love you for yourself!Health Question & Answer