I need some help, since my last relationship im scared to get into another one?!
Question: I need some help, since my last relationship im scared to get into another one.?
the last one i had i thought i was in love, well i guess i kind of was. but she broke up with me and then messed around with al these guys and it just left me heart broken. Now im scared to date, scared to get in a relationship. But i dont want to be :(.
after one of my relationships i stoppe talking to people on the phone cuz thats all we did was argue through it, and i still dont talk to people other than family unless i text. i dont want it to be that way with dating though.Health Question & Answer
after one of my relationships i stoppe talking to people on the phone cuz thats all we did was argue through it, and i still dont talk to people other than family unless i text. i dont want it to be that way with dating though.Health Question & Answer
Answers:
i remember after my first really bad break up it was hard for me to date again i mean he emotionally and physically abused me so it was hard to trust guys so i started with hanging out with guys that were just friends and that helped the fear allot you should find some girls your comfortable being with and chill with them for a while of course its also a good idea to have guy friends to but if you take your just friends that r girls out for a date you might be more comfortable with a date with some one else.Health Question & Answer
It is always hard to start dating again after a bad experience. I have been through a similar situation. I have now been in a successful relationship for 6 years. It was hard dealing with the issues from my past relationship and I was scared to start dating again. One thing that helped me is that I talked to someone about it. I had a therapist because not only was I dealing with the bad relationship I was also dealing with the bad things that happened during that relationship. Talking about it and working through your feelings does help.Health Question & Answer
you need to just let go and realize not every woman is the same. Guys always get like this when they have a bad relationship it's kinda pathetic. Girls get hurt but we know when to move on and not take it so personally she'll get what is coming to her and some guy will hurt her the way she hurt you and the best thing you can do is move forward and act like she didn't hurt you at all and then she realize what a mistake she made.Health Question & Answer
The very scenario you described happens to everyone and we all move on. Putting yourself out there to get hurt is unfortunately what love is all about...giving your heart to someone and trusting them not to break it. Not all girls are like that but sadly the majority of them are. Do not be scared to move on from her, don't dwell on the pain she caused you because there are much happier times around the corner.Health Question & Answer
not everyone should be in a relationship. take a break. and next time dont get into a relationship unless you know that they really want to be in it.
i dont want to sound really negative but most relationships dont last. so just keep giving it a shot and when you find the girl that you know you will be with forever and know that wants to be with you, youll be greatful that she broke your heart. without her breaking up with you, you will never find the girl you should be with. whe really wants to be with you.Health Question & Answer
i dont want to sound really negative but most relationships dont last. so just keep giving it a shot and when you find the girl that you know you will be with forever and know that wants to be with you, youll be greatful that she broke your heart. without her breaking up with you, you will never find the girl you should be with. whe really wants to be with you.Health Question & Answer
I'm scared to get into another relationship because my ex beat my face in...
I have been fighting my fears though and enjoying spending time with a very special guy
every day I overcome this fear, i feel closer to him and more protected...the less i feel like he would put his hands on me
I guess you just gotta move on and enjoy everyday as it comes...you know "today...I had a really good time with this girl...regardless of what happened between me and my ex"Health Question & Answer
I have been fighting my fears though and enjoying spending time with a very special guy
every day I overcome this fear, i feel closer to him and more protected...the less i feel like he would put his hands on me
I guess you just gotta move on and enjoy everyday as it comes...you know "today...I had a really good time with this girl...regardless of what happened between me and my ex"Health Question & Answer
if you r scared to dont get into any relations...and to keep away from all these just get involved into other things and with freinds..then you will feel better..just forget about that girl...it might take a little time to come out of everything..but what i feel is if you stay like that then if you meet your true love in future you will never be able to love ...just try forgeting it thinking that it was not your true love (if you had loved her truly) and someone better is waiting for you...al the best...Health Question & Answer
you shouldn't be afraid to engage into an emotional attachment again. just think that you aren't meant to be and it's just time to go on your ways sepately. God surely has something for you and that relationship is meant to be just a memory. you must leave the memories behind and go on your own now...Health Question & Answer
There is no need to fear! It's life, it happens to everyoneHealth Question & Answer
U r a sissy. what the hell do you mean ur scared.? grows some ballsHealth Question & Answer
I am so sorry you were heartbroken. That feeling is awful.
It is normal to be afraid to date again, especially if you were deceived.
Give it time, time heals all wounds, i know that sounds cliche but it's true. I had a really bad breakup, and i didn't date again. I think you should wait until you feel confident. Maybe just talk to girls in a friend way, and see what happens. As for the phone thing, try to force yourself, even if it causes anxiety, the anxiety will pass...doing this is the only way to face your fear.
This fear isn't weird, it's totally common to avoid things that caused you pain.
Another way to deal, if you are interested is to find a therapist, just someone to talk to and you will realize that there are a lot of amazing great people out there and you deserve an amazing person
and no not all women or all men are the same, there is someone out there, just takes time.
hang in there!Health Question & Answer
It is normal to be afraid to date again, especially if you were deceived.
Give it time, time heals all wounds, i know that sounds cliche but it's true. I had a really bad breakup, and i didn't date again. I think you should wait until you feel confident. Maybe just talk to girls in a friend way, and see what happens. As for the phone thing, try to force yourself, even if it causes anxiety, the anxiety will pass...doing this is the only way to face your fear.
This fear isn't weird, it's totally common to avoid things that caused you pain.
Another way to deal, if you are interested is to find a therapist, just someone to talk to and you will realize that there are a lot of amazing great people out there and you deserve an amazing person
and no not all women or all men are the same, there is someone out there, just takes time.
hang in there!Health Question & Answer