How do i handle my sister???? need help big time!!!!!?!


Question: How do i handle my sister.?.?.?.? need help big time!!!!!.?
Because i am ready to cut all ties to her i mean i love her dearly because she is my sister but she is backing me into a corner and i don't know how to handle this stress so i have started cutting myself to help(i know that's not exactly helpful) but she has constantly tried to break me and my fiance apart and now she told me she loves me like a women and man who are not brother and sister love each other and her ocd is not helping at all and i have no clear feelings at this point help what should i do because i am at the point where i am ready to cut off all ties to her!.?!.?!.?!.?!Health Question & Answer


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Please don't hurt yourself anymore. You are not the person who is wrong, your sister is wrong. She is acting as if you two have an incestuous relationship, which is wrong. The fact that she is cornering you shows that she is hoping that you will change your mind and love her instead of your fiance. You need to make it very clear to her that this will never happen and you are going to put a lot of space between yourself and her until she comes to her senses and is sorry. Your committment right now is to your future bride. If your sister is completely unreasonable when you tell her your decision, you may have to get completely away from her. It may be as she grows up that she will be ashamed of herself, but until then, you need to prepare for your new life with your new wife. Don't let your sister bog you down with her obsessions. She is being manipulative. Don't reward her efforts with too much attention. She will take that as interest in her (the wrong type). She basically needs to repent of a sinful attitude towards you which is very destructive. May God help you make a good life for yourself!Health Question & Answer

I've cut ties with my sister before. Just do it. Don't answer her calls, if she shows up at your house, lock the doors. If she has a key, change the locks.
Don't even tell her. Just drop everything.

And don't cut, because it doesn't make any sense dude :/
also the incest part is really weird and it sounds like she needs help.Health Question & Answer

Cut ties with her for the time being. A year should be good, and then see if she is acting normal. She may be getting jealous and thats about it.

Before you cut ties with her, sit her down and try talking to her. explain to her that if she doesnt behave, you will be cutting ties with her, she wont be invited to the wedding, etc. give her a time period, like a week, and if she is acting the same, cut her out.

my mom cut ties with my stepsister because she keeps trying to break her and my stepdad up. i tried too at one point, but i gave up. my mom is happier than ever since letting her go. that doesnt mean she doesnt love her daughter, but she has to be happy too and some people are just toxic. its okay to pity your sister and love her, but you have your own life and you have to take control of it.

hope this helps.Health Question & Answer



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