I can't bring myself to do anything or care about anything?!
Question: I can't bring myself to do anything or care about anything.?
i have really weird sleeping patterns i am really awake at night and sleepy during the day because its the holidays i stay up most of the night and sleep most of the day as in i go to bed at about 4am and get up around 2pm...when i do awake up i find i really hard to find the energy to get up knowing i have to get dressed and face the day and i dont really talk to my parents so i just spend time on my own and sometimes i feel really weird like im going to die for some reason and slightly crazy in the head.im constantly worried that i have terrible illnesses such as ms and parkinson's disease because i get twitchy muscles and others things. i always find myself looking up symptoms on google and its controlling my life. i cant bring myself to try in school and its really effecting my results this does bother me but then at the same time i just dont care i dont have the energy to care i cant be bothered caring. i feel like i dont even have a future so why bother.
i also get really anxious and nervous all the time sometimes i will just be sitting on the couch and ill be extremely nervous and i dont even know why and because of this i usually feel weird and question why this happens i dont know what to do. i often get really sad for on reason and just cry and cry and wish i could talk to my parents or let someone know whats going on sometimes i feel like my thoughts have gone strange or i am in a a situation but im not really there or i am different not the same old me its like im looking in to a world that i am not in but i am watching from another room or something drinking really brings this on so i choose not to these days which doesnt help my social life or my shyness i jsut dont know what to do anymore i cant go on like this and i just want to get the old me back.... any suggestions.?.? i am 17 almost 18 if that helpsHealth Question & Answer
i also get really anxious and nervous all the time sometimes i will just be sitting on the couch and ill be extremely nervous and i dont even know why and because of this i usually feel weird and question why this happens i dont know what to do. i often get really sad for on reason and just cry and cry and wish i could talk to my parents or let someone know whats going on sometimes i feel like my thoughts have gone strange or i am in a a situation but im not really there or i am different not the same old me its like im looking in to a world that i am not in but i am watching from another room or something drinking really brings this on so i choose not to these days which doesnt help my social life or my shyness i jsut dont know what to do anymore i cant go on like this and i just want to get the old me back.... any suggestions.?.? i am 17 almost 18 if that helpsHealth Question & Answer
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Hi - I tell you what you are not alone out there however with your age that shouldnt be the case you dont sound like you are a person that needs help i think you can help yourself, from what i ahve read i think you have too much time on your hands by that i mean you are constantly doing nothing. Doing nothing has a few consequences and the worst one being it makes you think a lot and sometimes when you think a lot you get scared or you feel depressed what i suggest to you is you get out a bit more, find a hobbie or get a job you are 17 so pretty much go out there and see the world help out around the house just find something to do i think you will find things will begin to change once your mind becomes active. I find that because i am in doors so much i think a lot and i get angry a lot sometimes at myself i feel like i am wasting time and yet i couldnt be stuffed to do anything as well i hope this helps jus go out there get a job, find a job, move around the house a little bit.Health Question & Answer
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WOW well maybe u shud get more active like get involved with more things so u have a reason to get up o maybe get a job aplication cusz rite u dont want to spend the rest of ur life like thatHealth Question & Answer
sounds like a state of depression,try talking to someone who will not only listen but will hear you ,hope that helpsHealth Question & Answer
It will be okay. It sounds like you have depression. You need to see a therapist or even a school counselor or teacher, you need someone to hear you out and validate what you are feeling. Your feelings are real, no matter if they are unreasonable. When I was a kid I could never talk about stuff like that with my mom either, she would say don't be silly and leave it. As you know that doesn't help. It is okay to talk, you don't have to be alone and it is okay to ask for help. Good luck and God bless.Health Question & Answer
You have a serious case of depression. Until you can be admitted to a clinic, hospital, or see a Dr. Get out of the house and get as much sunshine on you and on your face and you can stand.. If you live in the North I.E. North Dakota, Minnesota, Michigan, Wisconsin etc you could have the Winter Blues...also try buying a "Full Spectrum Light"...Good Luck this is one of the many reasons I moved to Florida.Health Question & Answer
Have you ever heard of a mal-depressoin.?
If your still in school, you can request a counseler. Which requests a therapist, which requests a physicatrist. They can give meds to ease the feelings.
Hang in there buddie, its somthing that weve all expierienced. especially since we were all that age once.
Acually after reviewing your symtoms, it seems you have a bi-polar disorder which is a chemical imbalance that fluctuates how you feel regardless of anything effective in your life. That is a disorder that no amount of counseling is going to cure. But i do know this, when your in a spell, you feel like ****, like your the root of everyones problems, that life for everyone else would bebetter, you dont care about anybody else, like that, then just breathe deeply and calmly and focus on all the positve things in your life. spells should be over in 5-25 min. just dont do anything stupidHealth Question & Answer
If your still in school, you can request a counseler. Which requests a therapist, which requests a physicatrist. They can give meds to ease the feelings.
Hang in there buddie, its somthing that weve all expierienced. especially since we were all that age once.
Acually after reviewing your symtoms, it seems you have a bi-polar disorder which is a chemical imbalance that fluctuates how you feel regardless of anything effective in your life. That is a disorder that no amount of counseling is going to cure. But i do know this, when your in a spell, you feel like ****, like your the root of everyones problems, that life for everyone else would bebetter, you dont care about anybody else, like that, then just breathe deeply and calmly and focus on all the positve things in your life. spells should be over in 5-25 min. just dont do anything stupidHealth Question & Answer
You need to see a counselor, I am the same way (minus the depression), but I am the same way when it comes to thinking I'm dying, I'm very anxious, think I'm crazy and so on...
I constantly worry myself into panic attacks at night dwelling on death and not just my own. My big one is Cancer. I'm convinced I'm gonna die of cancer, then i get all wigged out and think my mom is gonna die and it's a very viscous cycle, yet I can't go to a doctor cos I have panic attacks when the come near cos I'm afraid they will find cancer or kidney problems, don't ask me why I think kidneys.. i just have this hang up. Blood pressure machines freak me out more than anything...
You aren't alone... there are a lot of people like you, but really if you left the house and did some activities you would feel a lot better. When I just stay at home and do nothing , I physically feel like crap, but when I'm out and about I feel fine... so staying home does me no good cos i actually feel like i am dying....
I'm on medication and it's working some... I hate being like this, I really really do.... I wish i wasn't this way, but then i get freaked out about dying young, how bad the procedures will hurt, having to say good bye to family....
It's hard.... I feel for you.... counseling is about the only hope you have, cos you probably wont get over this on your own and it will prolly get worse the older you get, especially when you get married and have kids.Health Question & Answer
I constantly worry myself into panic attacks at night dwelling on death and not just my own. My big one is Cancer. I'm convinced I'm gonna die of cancer, then i get all wigged out and think my mom is gonna die and it's a very viscous cycle, yet I can't go to a doctor cos I have panic attacks when the come near cos I'm afraid they will find cancer or kidney problems, don't ask me why I think kidneys.. i just have this hang up. Blood pressure machines freak me out more than anything...
You aren't alone... there are a lot of people like you, but really if you left the house and did some activities you would feel a lot better. When I just stay at home and do nothing , I physically feel like crap, but when I'm out and about I feel fine... so staying home does me no good cos i actually feel like i am dying....
I'm on medication and it's working some... I hate being like this, I really really do.... I wish i wasn't this way, but then i get freaked out about dying young, how bad the procedures will hurt, having to say good bye to family....
It's hard.... I feel for you.... counseling is about the only hope you have, cos you probably wont get over this on your own and it will prolly get worse the older you get, especially when you get married and have kids.Health Question & Answer