Guys: Could you like/love someone who was sexually abused?!
Question: Guys: Could you like/love someone who was sexually abused.?
and is suffering with some anxiety and depression.. How would you feel if you suspected something, or if she told you. Would you run away.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
I wouldn't bc now is ur chance to show that Her that not all guys are the same > But even before I do that show her that I'm Essy to to talk to and trusting and Most Importantly don't leave her side show her that I will always b there no matter what > especially for her depression and ordeals in the past such as being sexually abused I'd show her that there is a Person out there who cares no matter what happened in her life.
Ive been in this situation before with my current girlfriend One thing that holds True is that She needed some one to b with and confide in and also to prove that she could love again and move out from the dark from the rut that she was in and live and love once more just like she had in the past and learn from it and look foreword towards the future
Tho her past has scared her for the rest of her life I still view her as the same person i've come to know since High School,Middle and Elementary School
It's funny to a point we were friends for so long that little did we know it would turn in to love.
But whats sad really is we're not Highshool sweet harts (Had crush on her But couldn't tell bc I was afraid of rejection so she didn't know for about 8 years till June of 2007
Bc she moved 4 years ago to a different state
before she would graduate
all tho I dont know what happened jn half of those 4 years I know of the last two with her ex and hes what caused her pain and anger and so much more for those two years and also her hiden past that she wasn't free of for so long I hade to do something I couldn't stand it any longer to see her in so much pain and angwish that i had to prove to her that that there are guys out there a guy like me to rescue her from her bitter end
All I know is I llove heer so much and m glade to shere a part of my life with her from now on and in to the future :)Health Question & Answer
Ive been in this situation before with my current girlfriend One thing that holds True is that She needed some one to b with and confide in and also to prove that she could love again and move out from the dark from the rut that she was in and live and love once more just like she had in the past and learn from it and look foreword towards the future
Tho her past has scared her for the rest of her life I still view her as the same person i've come to know since High School,Middle and Elementary School
It's funny to a point we were friends for so long that little did we know it would turn in to love.
But whats sad really is we're not Highshool sweet harts (Had crush on her But couldn't tell bc I was afraid of rejection so she didn't know for about 8 years till June of 2007
Bc she moved 4 years ago to a different state
before she would graduate
all tho I dont know what happened jn half of those 4 years I know of the last two with her ex and hes what caused her pain and anger and so much more for those two years and also her hiden past that she wasn't free of for so long I hade to do something I couldn't stand it any longer to see her in so much pain and angwish that i had to prove to her that that there are guys out there a guy like me to rescue her from her bitter end
All I know is I llove heer so much and m glade to shere a part of my life with her from now on and in to the future :)Health Question & Answer
I work in mental health. When I was working for a social service agency, it got to the point where, if a woman said she was NOT sexually abused, that was something unusual.
I don't think most guys would run away. I wouldn't.
However, I also think that the only real answers to anxiety and depression are found in only one place: The bible.Health Question & Answer
I don't think most guys would run away. I wouldn't.
However, I also think that the only real answers to anxiety and depression are found in only one place: The bible.Health Question & Answer
if i found out the person i loved was abused in some way i would fine the person who did it and make them pay for what they did, i would honestly make them wish they had never been born, turns out i am overprotective in the first placeHealth Question & Answer
No I wouldn't run away. I would do the opposite by supporting her and loving her because that is something she couldn't control and has nothing to do with love.Health Question & Answer
Yes, and I'm in that relationship now. Only a fool runs away from something they don't understand or can comprehend.Health Question & Answer
If you truly love someone, I believe that their past problems shouldn't be a hindrance to that love.Health Question & Answer
I would not run away, and any guy who runs away isn't worth a damn, so it's no loss to you...Health Question & Answer
No, I would like/love someone for who they are, ignoring what happened in the past if that's what they wanted me to do.Health Question & Answer
yeah who cares its the past! *im a girrll!* but i have experience so dont askHealth Question & Answer