Help! Am I a Pedophile?!
Question: Help! Am I a Pedophile.?
Okay, it's a theoretical question. Let's say I was 25 and was going out with a 15 year old, is that being a pedophile. By law, it is. But, would it be worse if the 15 year old was an 8 year old. YES, it would be worse, and you should get charged.
Child Molesters and Pedophiles ARE DIFFERENT. Pedophiles have relationships with children, Child Molesters just have sex with them.
I hoping that people will someday realize that kids are different today than 20 years ago, they have the INTERNET. Which means they know a whole lot more than you think, even if you say you KNOW they don't, it doesn't make you right.
I think the law should be changed from 18 years to 13 years for underage. Meaning if you had sex with someone 12 and younger, you would be charged. But anyone older, you would not be charged. What do you think about this.?
Do you honestly think teens can't make their own decisions.?Health Question & Answer
Child Molesters and Pedophiles ARE DIFFERENT. Pedophiles have relationships with children, Child Molesters just have sex with them.
I hoping that people will someday realize that kids are different today than 20 years ago, they have the INTERNET. Which means they know a whole lot more than you think, even if you say you KNOW they don't, it doesn't make you right.
I think the law should be changed from 18 years to 13 years for underage. Meaning if you had sex with someone 12 and younger, you would be charged. But anyone older, you would not be charged. What do you think about this.?
Do you honestly think teens can't make their own decisions.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
NO! You are a human being.
There are so many rules when it comes to sex.Health Question & Answer
There are so many rules when it comes to sex.Health Question & Answer
You need help, pal. The law has to be drawn somewhere, and a 12 year old is nowhere near old enough to be making that kind of decision. They are not emotionally equipped to be having a relationship with anyone.
You need to get yourself to a psychiatrist if you think that a 12 or 13 year old is fair game for a legal adult. I honestly think that there is no 13 year old that can make a decision regarding something that important when it involves an adult. The child will always be at a disadvantage.Health Question & Answer
You need to get yourself to a psychiatrist if you think that a 12 or 13 year old is fair game for a legal adult. I honestly think that there is no 13 year old that can make a decision regarding something that important when it involves an adult. The child will always be at a disadvantage.Health Question & Answer
Children ARE children. When the child turns 18, the child is truly able to distinguish between caring, loving, and lust.......we hope. Before that age, they are not. As a social worker, teacher, mother, I know that children WANT to believe they are more mature than anyone else their age. They WANT to believe that, and many do believe that. Still, they are children. My husband was interested in me when I was 11 yrs old. He waited until I was 16 (the very day) to ask me out. He was too old for me to date, so, when I was 19, I did date him. When I was 21, we married. Still married, and this is year 44. Waiting is the only right thing to do.Health Question & Answer
I think that the 18 law is good and should not be changed. yes teens can make their own decisions but they don't think about things with the maturity that adults think about things. I did alot of things when I was a teen that I would NEVER do now, and I wish my parents would have used alot more control.Health Question & Answer
I think that when a 25 year old wants to date a 15 year old, it is really gross. I have a 14 year old sister and I know I would hurt a 25 year old person for dating her. That is outrageous and really disturbing. Now if you were 35 and the other was 25, that might be different. But that isnt the case. I think the age limits are perfectly reasonable.Health Question & Answer
No, its not wrong at all. I am actually a 14 year old girl dating a 28 year old man via the HTTP Internets. We roleplay on MSN and via the cellular phone device. I also purchased a web camera for use of sending photos of my genital area to my monogamous partner. He says he loves me and we should meet in real life. I plan to meet him in two months. He says he will show me just how much he loves and cares for me with his penis.Health Question & Answer
That is some interesting rationalization. But I still think you are a freak.Health Question & Answer
no i think all teens are stupid and need to get their heads out of their *** so they can see all the stupid crap they are about to do.Health Question & Answer
same here u f u c k ing pisser
your so sick how can you go out with some 10 years older than you you purvvve and tell that lad hes stupid to be going out with youHealth Question & Answer
your so sick how can you go out with some 10 years older than you you purvvve and tell that lad hes stupid to be going out with youHealth Question & Answer
I think you're one sick fukker.Health Question & Answer
They can make their own decisions... that doesn't mean they'll be GOOD decisions.Health Question & Answer
The virgin mary was 12 or 13 when she had jesus, in the old times teens just to be sold like that... in the OLD F-ing Times... dude.. why do u want a kid... they dont know.. u need help...Health Question & Answer
I think 15 and 25 is way to big a difference. I'm 20, and I wouldn't date a 15 year old. No way.
The age of consent is 16 here, and I think that's fine. It puts less pressure on teens as well.
I think you should cool off the relationship until she is at least 18. I mean, a normal age difference would be an eighteen year old and a 23 year old, I suppose, but yours is just too big.
I find it very strange you'd be into a fifteen year old. She may seem mature, but she's actually not. It's just a bit weird...
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The age of consent is 16 here, and I think that's fine. It puts less pressure on teens as well.
I think you should cool off the relationship until she is at least 18. I mean, a normal age difference would be an eighteen year old and a 23 year old, I suppose, but yours is just too big.
I find it very strange you'd be into a fifteen year old. She may seem mature, but she's actually not. It's just a bit weird...
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teenagers don't have the life experience to make these decisions and they're open to abuse by adults because of this
the law is there for their protection
i think you should be arrested as a proactive measure or you could move to thailand and fill your boots (joke)Health Question & Answer
the law is there for their protection
i think you should be arrested as a proactive measure or you could move to thailand and fill your boots (joke)Health Question & Answer
I'll admit kids are alot different today, because of technological advancements, but they still don't have the mature thinking and decision-making skills that an adult has. I think the laws are just fine as they are. I want my children protected as long as possible. I will do everything in my power to do that, and if that makes me and overbearing mother, then that's what I am, but I will not allow my children to become victims because I didn't care enough or because I thought they were "mature" enough to make adult decisions. They should be allowed to make some decisions yes, but as long as they have all of the information, if not, then a parent needs to step in and guide them, that's our jobs. Otherwise, it's coined neglect.Health Question & Answer
Welllll....I CAN see where you're coming from because if an 18 or 19 year old boy has consensual sex with a fully matured 15 year old, and if he is charged then he would have to be registered for the rest of his life as a sex offender. Even if it was consensual sex, just because the girl was fifteen. That one mistake can RUIN you, and your future job outlook because you are a registered sex offender even though you never hurt, forced, or coerced anyone into doing anything. So, I can see where you're coming from and I do agree with you at least somewhat. But I don't think the age of consent should go all the way down to 13. There are ALOT of girls who are not mature enough at that age to make sexual decisions and can very easily be taken advantage of. So it is really hard to say about this, but I do understand where you're coming from. =]Health Question & Answer