How can i not be jealous of other people's success/happiness?!
Question: How can i not be jealous of other people's success/happiness.?
Can someone make a suggestion, im depressed and im finding nothing to do everyday, except be locked in my room.?
People wonder why i don't open up or why i don't approach others. Its cause im stuck in a scared box and would rather be alone...but it is just so miserable i feel like dying.....to know....that others are having a good time, while im trapped inside my head. It's really driving me to the insane asylum.What makes me more angry and jealous is to see couples. I dont know why. Im 20 ive been this way since i can remember. Im jealous when i see people happy.Health Question & Answer
People wonder why i don't open up or why i don't approach others. Its cause im stuck in a scared box and would rather be alone...but it is just so miserable i feel like dying.....to know....that others are having a good time, while im trapped inside my head. It's really driving me to the insane asylum.What makes me more angry and jealous is to see couples. I dont know why. Im 20 ive been this way since i can remember. Im jealous when i see people happy.Health Question & Answer
Answers:
In my opinion, this jelousy is because you dont want to see others happy when you are misreable.
But there are times when you are happy, (and others when you just appear happy) and times when others are misreable.
For all you know, its all a show, and the people you are jelous of are misreable inside, and THEN what a waste of your emotions.?
Or maybe that person has been misreable all of there lives and has finally found a glimpse of happiness.
If you dont know the whole story, its so silly to waste emiotion on it.
i kow what you mean though. to have it in your face is annoying.
so dont let it get in your headHealth Question & Answer
But there are times when you are happy, (and others when you just appear happy) and times when others are misreable.
For all you know, its all a show, and the people you are jelous of are misreable inside, and THEN what a waste of your emotions.?
Or maybe that person has been misreable all of there lives and has finally found a glimpse of happiness.
If you dont know the whole story, its so silly to waste emiotion on it.
i kow what you mean though. to have it in your face is annoying.
so dont let it get in your headHealth Question & Answer
by reflectin to the good things that hav happened it to u throughout ur life .Nobody has a perfect success or happiness somewhere in their life they are also lackin some important substance they areprobably improvin. You just need to get ot of that room and get some total enjoyment of life.Success and happiness doesnt come straight to you u just need to put some effort :)Health Question & Answer
go to a therapist or guidance counselor. remind urself of all the lucky things u have. do something productive and find more about yourself. open up and use it as an advantage and keep a journal. write a song. learn how to play an instrument with those self learining books.Health Question & Answer
I asked a similar question here on YA not too long ago...have a look if you'd like: .?qid=20090118163533AAlrHiA">http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Maybe some of the answers I was given would help you too. Some of them were really touching. I hope you feel better soon, I'm definitely in your shoes too.Health Question & Answer
Maybe some of the answers I was given would help you too. Some of them were really touching. I hope you feel better soon, I'm definitely in your shoes too.Health Question & Answer
Just remember you weren't born and raised in the worst part of Somalia, for example.
Millions of people across the globe have it much harder than you ever will.Health Question & Answer
Millions of people across the globe have it much harder than you ever will.Health Question & Answer
If you are jealous of success, why not mingle with real losers. Maybe that makes you feel better.Health Question & Answer
Honey, I strongly recommend professional help.Health Question & Answer