My problems with guys?!
Question: My problems with guys.?
Im 17 and im kinda embarrassed to say i've never had a boyfriend.
I've been in love twice. The last guy was my friend and he liked me as a person but he didn't feel the way i did.
The guy im currently in love with is a guy i began talking to randomly. I met him through friends and he's said that he loves me. I used to believe him but i don't any more. He has a girlfriend that hes been on and off with for years. Hes with her now. Now im just trying to get over this love and see him as a friend but it hurts to let go.I feel like guys base so much on looks and i don't. I feel like it'll be an eternity before i find some one who cares for me. I know i should just live life and not think about guys but i feel so lonely.
No guy has ever told me im beautiful. Except for my friend but we are strictly platonic.
My mom tells me all the time that im beautiful and i know that should be enough but i just don't feel it.Health Question & Answer
I've been in love twice. The last guy was my friend and he liked me as a person but he didn't feel the way i did.
The guy im currently in love with is a guy i began talking to randomly. I met him through friends and he's said that he loves me. I used to believe him but i don't any more. He has a girlfriend that hes been on and off with for years. Hes with her now. Now im just trying to get over this love and see him as a friend but it hurts to let go.I feel like guys base so much on looks and i don't. I feel like it'll be an eternity before i find some one who cares for me. I know i should just live life and not think about guys but i feel so lonely.
No guy has ever told me im beautiful. Except for my friend but we are strictly platonic.
My mom tells me all the time that im beautiful and i know that should be enough but i just don't feel it.Health Question & Answer
Answers:
I know exactly how your feeling, and I am sure every girl can relate to this experience. I've noticed that the more you go searching for love, the more love escapes you. That guy you're talking about is obviously fake. You cannot just love someone and go out with someone at the same time. This is the time when you need your friends. You have no idea the impact friends have on me. Even at my worst, my friends and I hang out and everything is fun. I dont have to be fake infront of my friends, and I can just be myself. I can be crazy. I can be me.
Dont think that it will be eternity untill you find someone that cares for you. Think in a different perspective. Think that it will be eternity for SOMEONE to find YOU because your truly special. It will take someone else to see that you truly are beautifull, and that looks on the outside dont matter in a serious relationship. I think the same way you do, and dont go much on looks but on the inside. My friends tease me about it because I liked someone that wasnt very good looking but had a great personality. He was someone I could relate to and someone that could chear me up any second.
Never let go of people like that. In the end Its YOU who has to make the decision, not your friends. You are NOT lonely, you have your friends, you have your parents, you have GOD. Guys are not everything. You do not need guys to go on. Feeling lonely is perfectly fine, but you just need to get over that bridge and to realize that there is nothing called loneliness. Its just how you make yourself feel. When I am lonely, I go to my parents and hang out with my parents. In the end of the day, they are people who created you and I am sure they deserve the right for you to hang out with them.
Darling, I've seen very few people like me. VERY FEW.
People who do not base their love on looks.
But on the actual person Instead.
I find this a true gift inside people and I respect you for having this.
You should be proud of this, and think that ONLY some special guy who has this gift would have the key to your heart.
I am sure God has written a wonderfull Love story for you darling.
Good Luck :)
If you have any more questions, or just need someone to hear you out.
Msg me anytime, and ill be here to listen and give you advice. =DHealth Question & Answer
Dont think that it will be eternity untill you find someone that cares for you. Think in a different perspective. Think that it will be eternity for SOMEONE to find YOU because your truly special. It will take someone else to see that you truly are beautifull, and that looks on the outside dont matter in a serious relationship. I think the same way you do, and dont go much on looks but on the inside. My friends tease me about it because I liked someone that wasnt very good looking but had a great personality. He was someone I could relate to and someone that could chear me up any second.
Never let go of people like that. In the end Its YOU who has to make the decision, not your friends. You are NOT lonely, you have your friends, you have your parents, you have GOD. Guys are not everything. You do not need guys to go on. Feeling lonely is perfectly fine, but you just need to get over that bridge and to realize that there is nothing called loneliness. Its just how you make yourself feel. When I am lonely, I go to my parents and hang out with my parents. In the end of the day, they are people who created you and I am sure they deserve the right for you to hang out with them.
Darling, I've seen very few people like me. VERY FEW.
People who do not base their love on looks.
But on the actual person Instead.
I find this a true gift inside people and I respect you for having this.
You should be proud of this, and think that ONLY some special guy who has this gift would have the key to your heart.
I am sure God has written a wonderfull Love story for you darling.
Good Luck :)
If you have any more questions, or just need someone to hear you out.
Msg me anytime, and ill be here to listen and give you advice. =DHealth Question & Answer
I know exactly how you feel, and I don't think there's anything wrong with you at all.
I know how cliched it sounds, but there is a guy out there for you. Waiting is the hardest part most of the time but you can use this time for so many other things, to work on things you love or develop talents. I know you feel lonely but perhaps you're looking for love in all the wrong places anyway...Health Question & Answer
I know how cliched it sounds, but there is a guy out there for you. Waiting is the hardest part most of the time but you can use this time for so many other things, to work on things you love or develop talents. I know you feel lonely but perhaps you're looking for love in all the wrong places anyway...Health Question & Answer
You're only 17 sweetie. Actually putting off dating until your real personality has a chance to mature is not a bad idea.
Are you lonely because there is social pressure on you to date.? Or is this your true self (without peer pressure).? Trust me, you learn to weed out the no-goods with a little maturity. Girls today date too young when they are gullable.Health Question & Answer
Are you lonely because there is social pressure on you to date.? Or is this your true self (without peer pressure).? Trust me, you learn to weed out the no-goods with a little maturity. Girls today date too young when they are gullable.Health Question & Answer
i know exactly how you feel when you say it will be an eternity before some one loves you. it does feel like that when you are alone.but alone is like steroids because it makes you strong.love will come when it is time,an believe me,when it comes it will nock you off your feet.leave this guy with a girlfriend alone because it seems as if he already has issues with the girl he goes back and forth with,he probably does love you in some ways.. but your life is so much more than waiting for someone who cant get over someone else.find some one that is ready to love you now,its ok if your 17 and haven't found a boyfriend yet,you just haven't found one that deserves you yet,its well worth the wait,besides..boys are stressing a times anyway,you are young,so have fun,and be a pimp for a while.lolHealth Question & Answer