Do you think I'm depressed ?!
Question: Do you think I'm depressed .?
what's the point.? I have no friends, nobody loves me, even my mom thinks my brothers better then me. I try so hard, I smile everyday but nobody smiles back, life is all about looking good and having friends. either of which I'm not. I can't even have a dog as a friend; NOTHING wants to have anything to do with me. my family even makes up jokes about me; I just want a friend. I know i'm too ugly fat and dumb to have a boyfriend so I won't even bother. I haven't done anything wrong; I'm just a failure ... but I want a friend :(Health Question & Answer
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You are struggling right now but it gets better. Read some books on self-esteem and really work on it. You have to love yourself first before others can. Life is about being happy with who you are and what you want to do. I thought it was about having people around and have them make me happy but that is not the case. I am just learning this at the age of 44. I had friends, was married, good job, thinner at times than others but I still was not happy. Why.? because I wasn't happy with myself and I am now working on that and it is hard. But the more you like yourself you will give off that vibe and people will know you like yourself and see the confidence you have in yourself. I don't know how old you are but I wish I would have realized this when I was a lot younger. As you get older you come to realize most men, not all but those are the ones you don't want anyway, want a woman who is happy with herself, has confidence and a good personality over just having the good looks. Trust me as I have experienced this. I'm 44, single now, just lost my job, have a few pounds to lose but I am feeling happier each day now than I ever did when I was younger and focusing on what people expected me to look like and do. And I am getting dates because I am liking myself more. It's always a work in progress but I'm doing it for myself nobody else. The happiness has to come from inside you but it does come with a lot of work and ambition.Health Question & Answer
I don't even know you but I know you aren't a failure. You are obviously going through a tough time in your life. It happens to everyone at some point and your time is now. You may not have friends now so to compensate study hard be a nerd become successful study learn and one day you will meet somebody intelligent who understands, loves and respects you. The key is to have hope and find your purpose in life. Let your purpose be to become successful and meet other intelligent successful people or have a family to love and care and raise your children to be who you want to be.
Have hope, think positive and don't worry about what other people say. People always tell you what you can't do, they never tell you what you can do.
P.S. I don't have friends so I put all of my energy into my studies so I can go on to uni and meet intelligent people there and hopefully make friends.
Friends aren't everything you know search for something more fulfilling than friends.
HAVE HOPE!! BE STRONG!! YOU ARE NEVER WRONG!!Health Question & Answer
Have hope, think positive and don't worry about what other people say. People always tell you what you can't do, they never tell you what you can do.
P.S. I don't have friends so I put all of my energy into my studies so I can go on to uni and meet intelligent people there and hopefully make friends.
Friends aren't everything you know search for something more fulfilling than friends.
HAVE HOPE!! BE STRONG!! YOU ARE NEVER WRONG!!Health Question & Answer
You can have a friend. Try to exercise. Go out and talk to people. Rather than trying to find a friend, really focus on yourself. Make yourself the best person you can. Have some dreams about who you want to be and make it through. Once you possess lots of interests and good qualities, you will attract friends naturally. If you spend too much time looking for a friend but not caring about yourself, you can't find a friend.
Focus on YOURSELF! Good luck and looks are not everything. It is more important how you feel about yourself. You have to love yourself first and then others will naturally love you.Health Question & Answer
Focus on YOURSELF! Good luck and looks are not everything. It is more important how you feel about yourself. You have to love yourself first and then others will naturally love you.Health Question & Answer
This is bad I feel the same way you do. I am the only child and no one and I mean no one from my family ever calls. I don't even keep a phone any more cause I don't have any friends and mind as well no family. My in laws don't like me either. I am sorry, I am not trying to depress you more I am just trying to be support to let you know you are not alone.Health Question & Answer
You arent depressed , you r just a pathetic individual..... l used to do think the same as you.... and you know what, all l did was waste my life and not live.... l too thought l was fat and ugly and recently l got the boyfriend, problem he dumps me 4 months later, so booo hoo to me..... get out and live a life for crying out load.... dont sit there and waste it waiting for things to happen....Health Question & Answer
So sad. Maybe u can try personality test, from there you can figure out how to deal with your life. I am an ISTJ person.Health Question & Answer
i'll be your friendHealth Question & Answer