'friend' trying to ruin my marriage?!
Question: 'friend' trying to ruin my marriage.?
Im 26 and married for 5 months to my wonderful husband who thinks the world of me. my good male friend of 10 years, i have a sexual past before my marriage that no one knows about. i always thought that we would end up together as he was my first 'love' but hes married and so am i. don't get me wrong i adore the man i married & would never do a thing to hurt him. none of us have children,yet. my friend is starting to come on strong with me lately moving my hair from my face, trying to get me to kiss him and other things(you know what i mean).i have slapped him and told him to back off or i'll tell everyone. should i tell my husband just to get it out there.? he is also one of my husbands best friends. his wife and i are kind of friends i guess, but lately she is treating me like a ***** and has a big competition with me, god knows why..i don't as she doesnt know about what happened. We both use to be best friends.
please help on giving me advice on what to do
thanks alotHealth Question & Answer
please help on giving me advice on what to do
thanks alotHealth Question & Answer
Answers:
Hypothetically speaking, I'm your husband and a mature guy. I'd appreciate being told. I understand that you had a life and a past before you meet me, and it's okay - nothing to get worked up over. Granted, I don't ask for details typically. However, in this case, your past is about to directly affect our present and future.
If this guy really is a friend of mine, he wouldn't be pulling this crap with my wife and I married you, not him so that's who I'll back in this, provided I don't feel as if I was mislead or betrayed.
Transparency is crucial. I want to know I can trust you and you can trust me and we're in it together, till death do us part. Of course, it may be rough for awhile, but you've always got to work for the best things in life and love is no differnet.
As for the jack-hole's (cause no friend of yours would put you in the situation he is) wife, maybe she does know. Or maybe it's a nagging thought at the back of her mind that he likes you. Perhaps, he even told her that she should be more like you. Forget about her too. Tell your husband and you can both resolve to drop them both.Health Question & Answer
If this guy really is a friend of mine, he wouldn't be pulling this crap with my wife and I married you, not him so that's who I'll back in this, provided I don't feel as if I was mislead or betrayed.
Transparency is crucial. I want to know I can trust you and you can trust me and we're in it together, till death do us part. Of course, it may be rough for awhile, but you've always got to work for the best things in life and love is no differnet.
As for the jack-hole's (cause no friend of yours would put you in the situation he is) wife, maybe she does know. Or maybe it's a nagging thought at the back of her mind that he likes you. Perhaps, he even told her that she should be more like you. Forget about her too. Tell your husband and you can both resolve to drop them both.Health Question & Answer