Is our relationship TOO good to be true?!
Question: Is our relationship TOO good to be true.?
i have been with my boyfriend 10 years this year. im 25 and madly in love with him. he is an FDNY firefighter and since 9/11 after losing alot of people close to both of us & him having a ceiling collapse on him, he has changed his out look on life & really lives for the moment. last year when we were engaged we broke up for 2 months after i lost my dad(who was also a firefighter) i couldn't deal with it and i knew it wasn't fair on him so i broke up with him, but he was there for me all the way through it. we are back together now and he has told me he never wants to lose me again & he really wants us to get married but i thought i needed more time after the loss of my dad, but now i really wanna marry him. he is amazing to me he treats me like im the only girl in the world and will sometimes even sing to me, at a party or somewhere. i fall more in love with him every time i see him & know that i will NEVER leave him again. im just scared of being this happy as my whole life has been a whir wind of drama, being the youngest in a big family with older siblings, alcoholics in the family, fights,losing a baby,most my family are firefighters so i've been to alot of funerals & i also lost my brother a few years ago & lost my mom 2 years ago etc. How do i go about letting him know that i wanna marry him, i know i should just tell him but he keeps wanting to make it special. im scared something bad is going to take all this happiness away from me.Health Question & Answer
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love doesnt actually exist in relationships. it's a 1 in a million chance that u will marry someone and still be happy with them after so many years if you dont happen to get a divorce. sorry, it's just the way it is and people will tell you go ahead and marry and w/e but seriously. There are billions of people out there. Thinking that 1 person is the only one for you is plain dumb. People naturally get bored.Health Question & Answer