I know i was molested but im not sure who did it?!


Question: I know i was molested but im not sure who did it.?
ever since i was about 10 men have creeped me out and as i got older i started to feel like i was molested as a kid, then one day i looked into the signs of kids who are molested and i have pretty much all of them even though not as common signs. i dont wanna talk about what i did as a kid but trust me it was not normal for a kid. also i remember when i was really little i was always get infections down there. anyway now im 16 and i kinda think i know who it was but i dont remember ever being alone with him so im afraid if i ask my mom she will think im making it up ( like i said im kinda messed up now about relationships so i always try to convince my mom im sick,dying, etc cuz i crave her attention and want her to worry about me) so im afraid shes gonna be like well you were never alone with him so you must be lying. I know in my gut somthing happened to me, it just seems so obvious. but since i dont know who it was for sure i feel like i cant tell my mom. i just hate when she gets annoyed with me when i cry a lot and cant tell her why. i wish i could but im afraid :(Health Question & Answer


Answers:
As a child of abuse, i know what you mean.

It is a terrible feeling. I have never told my mum about it, because i don't feel like i need to worry her like that. I have come to terms with what happened to me. I like to think that i am stronger because of what happened to me, but sometimes it does get to be too much. I don't like men, i have trouble with men showing me affection. Anything to do with sex, porn and the like makes me feel disgusting.

Your mum does care about you! You don't need to act sick to get her to care for you. I know everyone feels like their parents don't love them enough, but seriously, she probably worries about you every single day.

(im also 16)Health Question & Answer

tell your mom if she loves you she will believe you trust me and if that doesn't work talk to someone you can trust and have them go with you to the doctor cause if you keep holding it in it's going to drive you crazy so ask your momHealth Question & Answer

You need to tell someone, that way you can get if off ur chest. You shouldn't be going throught this...Health Question & Answer

Go see a doctor. You're old enough to go without your mother. The doctor will guide you.Health Question & Answer

Just tell her, Maybe she can help[ you figure it outHealth Question & Answer



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