I'm really lonely and frustrated, what can I do?!
Question: I'm really lonely and frustrated, what can I do.?
Hi, i'm a high school senior, male. I'm really lonely, me and my friends have been drifting apart. We are what you would call the nerds. But, lately, there has been a shift, some are becoming more social, others are studying harder. For example, one of my friends demanded that I stop working during my free period and play video games with them. At the same time, I had pressure to study with someone there for the test next period.
I just don't know what to do, I've increased the amount of time I spend volunteering, but I don't feel any better. I feel alot of pressure on me ever since I got into this really go school, almost like I have to prove I am entitled to go there. As if I can mess up in front of anyone because then people will think I don't deserve to go. I haven't watched TV in a few years because I wanted to study more, I stopped listing to non-academic podcasts. I've also started to prep for my AP tests. I'm thinking about abandoning all my social relationships to get more done. It's just I don't feel like I get much out of doing anything but school work, I feel happy and satisfied when studying. But i'm also so lonely, I don't know what's wrong with me. Sorry about the spelling and grammar, i'm on the verge of crying. I just need some help.Health Question & Answer
I just don't know what to do, I've increased the amount of time I spend volunteering, but I don't feel any better. I feel alot of pressure on me ever since I got into this really go school, almost like I have to prove I am entitled to go there. As if I can mess up in front of anyone because then people will think I don't deserve to go. I haven't watched TV in a few years because I wanted to study more, I stopped listing to non-academic podcasts. I've also started to prep for my AP tests. I'm thinking about abandoning all my social relationships to get more done. It's just I don't feel like I get much out of doing anything but school work, I feel happy and satisfied when studying. But i'm also so lonely, I don't know what's wrong with me. Sorry about the spelling and grammar, i'm on the verge of crying. I just need some help.Health Question & Answer
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Ok, what it seems like your are going thru is a Change! Your friends at school are finding them selves. You have to focus on not only your studies but what are you going to do after college. Start visiting colleges, recruiter,and possibly training for the future.
In the good book, you are going thru a Change. From Boy to Man and this is what you are feeling. Its ok, to feel a little lonely. This is normal. You are normal. Focus on you right now, if its not too late, join a club. Clubs do help, find a interesting part time job. You have a ideal mine. I hope this helpHealth Question & Answer
In the good book, you are going thru a Change. From Boy to Man and this is what you are feeling. Its ok, to feel a little lonely. This is normal. You are normal. Focus on you right now, if its not too late, join a club. Clubs do help, find a interesting part time job. You have a ideal mine. I hope this helpHealth Question & Answer
Keep studying and get the good grades. Have some time to chill and relax with some mates also, but not too much. Focus on the studies and you'll be fine. Volunteering is good because it gets you away from focusing too much on your own troubles and you also feel better for helping others less fortunate. I think you have a good head on your shoulders and you'll be successful too.Health Question & Answer
Your case is unique. Yahoo answers would probably yield no better answer than to talk to a teacher or counselor or another professional to assist you in dealing with these complex troubles.Health Question & Answer
remember the proverb t 'all work and no play make jack a dull boy"'
don't go to extremes. moderation in every thing is the key. don t deprive ur self of any thing because deprivation fire backs - in ur case loneliness frustration which may lead to depression.
manage ur time and u will end up doing everything. include exercise ,hobbies in ur life and u will be more fulfilled.
u cant NOT have friends because there is a social side to humans that u cant neglect . humans are social beings that need a network of family , friends .acquaintances to live in emotional and psychological well-being.Health Question & Answer
don't go to extremes. moderation in every thing is the key. don t deprive ur self of any thing because deprivation fire backs - in ur case loneliness frustration which may lead to depression.
manage ur time and u will end up doing everything. include exercise ,hobbies in ur life and u will be more fulfilled.
u cant NOT have friends because there is a social side to humans that u cant neglect . humans are social beings that need a network of family , friends .acquaintances to live in emotional and psychological well-being.Health Question & Answer