Cutting?? help please?!


Question: Cutting.?.? help please.?
ok first off read this....dont just say dont do it.
ok so i started cutting myself about a week ago..
because i cant cry any longer.. it just doesnt help anymore. ive spent night after night crying myself to sleep and it just doesnt help.
ok so i just recently found out my dad was doing drugs....not just pot..but cocaine and possibly heroine! and i told my mom (they r divorced) after thinking about it and going back and forth deciding to tell her or not. i finally did about a week ago. i told her im not getting any sleep and cant get over this fact. she was not suprised what so ever. she said well u dont know for sure (in which i do.. my aunt told me and so did my grandpa!).. but said if it was true she wasnt suprised he had done pot b4 but ... yeah she said she would only take him to court to make it so i dont have to go to his house if he forces me to. which i think he will but... in the mean time what do i do.? he does NOT know that ik and i dont intend on telling him..hes a very angry person and i cant stand him when hes mad. plus he would know it was my aunt who told me and they dont get along right now so i dont want to start anything more. my mom is the type who doesnt want to start anything. at all.ever. he hasnt called me in a month.. after we got in a fight and i was supposed 2 go over there but then decided not to because he screamed at me and plus i just dont feel safe going over there since i found out. i told him im willing to go over my grandpas and see him but not going 2 his house (other reasons..but drugs is the major 1)..so theres that that i am extremely mad at my mother for...
and then the fact that my great-grandpa (who i was very close to just died before christmas)..
and me and my dad got in a big fight on christmas and he yelled at me for me having to go see my other family after i go to his house..
soo i just cant f*cking stand him any more. no more chances im done. my aunt and her bf are the only 1s that understand. only 2 of my friends know about me cutting myself...and they both do too.. soo they wont say anything..
but what can i do.?.?

ohh also..any ways i can hide the marks.?..their on my wrist..i have just been using elastic bands.

btw i am a girl and turning 14 soonHealth Question & Answer


Answers:
hi there. i am/was in the same situation as you. i know the feeling of wanting help but not sure how to get it/where to find it and not wanting your parents to find out.
i would recommend hotlines. just google your area and crisis. or if you think it's an emergency, Hopeline. If you ever ever need someone to talk to, just message me and i'll give you my email from there.
I'm 14, and a girl too.
I cut for dfferent reasons, naturally. but i understand wha tyou're going through right now.

as for the hiding of marks, just wear sweaters. it's the winter time. which is, in my opinion, the best time to cut if there is any good time at all to cut. because it looks normal to wear a jacket.
honestly, snapping elastic bands doesn't work. me and three cutters i know all agree on that.
wristbands work too. just make sure they're thin and look normal.

please please message me if you need help. <3Health Question & Answer

You need to stop hurting yourself. It isn't your fault that your dad is such a **** up, so stop torturing yourself for it. I know you feel like you are trapped, but try to stay positive. There must be someone somewhere you can talk to. What about the school counselor.?Health Question & Answer

ummm hey im 14 too here's my email please email me
brynnastardant@gmail.com

i used to cut. just wear jackets and long sleeve shirtsHealth Question & Answer

I recommend you check out this social networking community called LetsReflect.com. There are people there going through situations similar to yours. They are great for advice and encouragement.

The process of Self Reflection has truly changed my life

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