Please, can someone help me cheer up?!


Question: Please, can someone help me cheer up.?
I don't know,please just give me some advice/experience. Just got heartbroken basically, and I'm also wondering why God takes people we love so badly away from us. Please no rude comments, just maybe some experience of life that can help me get throughHealth Question & Answer


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Hey cheese. Just relax. Heart breaks are common. Everyone goes through it. I have not had a girlfriend since my last girl. We had to break up because of the distance. OH IT KILLED ME. All I did was think about her. If you want advice, this is the best advice I will give you:
a)If you have broken up with that person because of whatever reason, give him space dont contact him or anything of that sort. If you keep contacting him, he will think you still like him. I assume you are a girl through your avatar.
b)If he broke up with you, stop all kind of connections with him. Dont be bothered about what he is doing. Get some other friends. Hang out more and go out more.
I hope you will feel better.
It is often said Give it time. You might be irritated with it, but thats the truth give it time....you will be just fine...:)Health Question & Answer

Was it a boyfriend/husband.? That happens to all of us at least once in life and at the time of it happening you feel crushed but you will forget that pain soon and move on.

It compares nothing to loosing someone in your family to death especially if they are young. As you grow older you will continue to experience more and more death as the older relatives die and then some friends will also die it's a natural part of life. Am I cheering you up yet.?

There is always the opposite for everything and for sadness there is joy and for anger there is peace etc etc. Sad things happen but you can help to create the joy in your own life and those around you.Health Question & Answer

What I came up with is that there is an infinite world of matter, but no feelings out there, only in our hearts and minds. God wants us to have good feelings of Love, and Joy, and Compassion, but sometimes humans have to also feel the downsides of emotions in order to feel the upsides. So God gives us the capacity to feel both. Often good feelings have more intensity because of the bad ones that went before. Know what I mean.? Anyway, I never want to go swimming, but always feel better after I do it. So that is what I do. Joined a swim club and go twice a week. Find a great exercise that works for you. Eat well, Sleep well. And revel in what joy you can create in others.Health Question & Answer

We may never come to understand exactly why god takes our loved ones away. Sometimes it happens just to help us grow as individuals. It really sucks when it happens but, everything happens for a reason.Health Question & Answer



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