{please help} i feel like a loser cause i'm not living enough..?!
Question: {please help} i feel like a loser cause i'm not living enough...?
i feel like a loser right now, I've been sitting here on my laptop for 5 hours now, watching shows online. Classes are done already, since it's summer. But I can't go out with friends, I mean..I've been invited to go out but I just couldn't go cause of my parents. I just feel like such a loser, I mean. I'm 15, I travel, I have a scuba diving license and I've scuba dived with a whale before, I've rock climbed mountains (slippery ones!), and I try to live life with as much adventure as I can, I don't even care how dangerous it is cause I already feel dead [Base Jumping is next]. But why do I still feel like a loser.? I don't understand.. I have friends, but I'm not that close to them. I have one close friend but the relationship is on the rocks right now. I've had boyfriends before but things just end, so I promised myself I wouldn't be a fool to teen love ever again. What's wrong with me.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
Nothing, you just need perspective, my advice, if you really want to feel better try something like:
Do some volunteer or charity work. Helping people will help you not feel like a loser, because you will be making a difference.
Create or build stuff, art, fashion, literature, music, furniture, film, whatever your interest is it's nice to do something and see an end result of it.
Explore your spiritual side,
You're 15, it's normal to ask self involved questions, you're trying to define yourself, but in doing so you're probably being overly self critical.
seriously, what in your mind would make you not a loser, and if something just popped in your head, is it a realistic goal, in a realistic time frame.?Health Question & Answer
Do some volunteer or charity work. Helping people will help you not feel like a loser, because you will be making a difference.
Create or build stuff, art, fashion, literature, music, furniture, film, whatever your interest is it's nice to do something and see an end result of it.
Explore your spiritual side,
You're 15, it's normal to ask self involved questions, you're trying to define yourself, but in doing so you're probably being overly self critical.
seriously, what in your mind would make you not a loser, and if something just popped in your head, is it a realistic goal, in a realistic time frame.?Health Question & Answer
It's hard at your age, but the previous answers are right - shifting focus from yourself and your feelings to volunteering or a job might help. It's easy to get wrapped up in your own head and, while your list of achievements are very cool, maybe you feel like they don't define you. Volunteering or working develops a keener self-identity because you're challenging yourself to adapt and make an impact.Health Question & Answer
See if you can volunteer for a school, hospital, literacy assistant, etc. or pickup a job somewhere. You need to get out more and stop focusing on what you perceive to be "a loser." I don't think you are if you have traveled, scuba and mountain clim.b. So there you are.Health Question & Answer
This is blunt and probably not the least bit helpful, but here it is:
Because you're a teenager, dur. It goes away.
Cool resume, though. You're gonna have some wicked stories to tell.Health Question & Answer
Because you're a teenager, dur. It goes away.
Cool resume, though. You're gonna have some wicked stories to tell.Health Question & Answer