What can I do to get along with her even when he is close friends with an ex?!
Question: What can I do to get along with her even when he is close friends with an ex.?
A year ago i broke up with my ex, he was from work. I don't see him everyday, sometimes i talk to him because we are in different departments. This guy was very controlling, jealous and after seeing each other for 6 months i decided to broke up with him, but he made me feel even worst when 3 weeks after the break-up he had a new girlfriend. Everyone thinks he is like a saint because he is nice with people from work, seems very confident, funny, etc. but I just wish everyone could see his true colors. I decided to stay calm cos i cared about the job, so I haven't said anything negative about him. Anyway, a girl is now sitting beside me, we have a space issue so everyone is really close. I didn't know they were good friend; today, her first day in the new sit, she called him like 5 times and he also called her. They were playing some kind of game (on an email), some kind of riddles or something. I didn't have anything against her but now I just can't stand it. Maybe I feel a bit jealous because I don't have the type of relationship he has with her, but I mean it's been a year I shouldn't worry about it right.?.? What can I do to don't let this interfere with my relationship with this girl.? or with my work.? I don't want to let this get to me. Any advice.?Health Question & Answer
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I don't think it should be a problem. Some jealousy will be natural, but, as long as you don't succumb to it, it won't pose a big issue. She's not trying to cause any problems via her relationship with him, so I would try to avoid being upset with her. However, if they begin to become too involved with each other, you might want to talk to him or her, or both, and try to avoid having a similar incident happen, so that neither of them will be hurt, particularly her. also, always try to be forgiving of people's flaws, and give them more chances, if doing so is at all possible. Sometimes in won't be, in which case it is important to see that the person gets help.Health Question & Answer
Let her know that you went out with him so she'll know - its better than if she find it out but put a barrier on that.
Next thing is, that guy might know you're sitting beside her so he'll stir you up this way. You gotta know this before it affects you badly ok.?
If you dont feel any better within a month, get your resume ready... coz it will just get worst if you stay - well there is a large chance for....
All the best
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Next thing is, that guy might know you're sitting beside her so he'll stir you up this way. You gotta know this before it affects you badly ok.?
If you dont feel any better within a month, get your resume ready... coz it will just get worst if you stay - well there is a large chance for....
All the best
- KRHealth Question & Answer