How do you move on when he dumps you for another guy and wont say why? How long moving on take? I'm jealous?!


Question: How do you move on when he dumps you for another guy and wont say why.? How long moving on take.? I'm jealous.?
So I've been dating (lots of sex) this guy for a couple months.I fell in love with. He did not fall in love with me. We continued to date (ie. -sex) even though he knew I was in love with him.

To make a long story short, he had a court-ordered committment and we didnt talk or see each other for 2 months. The lack of communication was the death of our "relationship."

He dumped me for another guy (but never told me this). I found out through friends.

I dont understand why he wouldnt just be honest and tell me he's dumping me for another guy instead of having me find out elsewhere.?

It hurts 1 million times more that he didnt trust me to tell me the truth instead of not give me a reason.

It hurts to see new pics of "them" at his work, sleepovers at his house on his bed, etc. that they post on their myspace. He has clearly moved on while im clindsided and stuck suffering.

I left him only 1 email, 1 voicemail, and 1 text because I dont wont to seem desperate or look like a stalker. He ignored each one.

I dont understand how anyone can go from a caring, intimate relationship to completely not giving a f**k about the other person almost overnight.

Seriously, how log does this "moving on" process take.?

I've seen guys who cant "move on" for YEARS after a bad breakup, especially if they werent given closure or an honest reason why.

I'm so jealous of his new boyfriend especially knowing that they're "screwing", making out, hanging out 24/7 when I'm grieving alone.

I want this feeling to stop!

It's not that I dont want to move on, I just dont know how.

What exactly does "move on" mean.? How long does "move on" take.?

How do you know if you've successfuly "moved on".?

I guess this means it's over...forever.?

I should never contact him ever again and do the whole "no contact rule" from now on.? It's not like I have a choice since he's doing "no contact" to me.

:(
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Answers:
thats called a crush on...and yes ur jealous.
u should get over it..
or ull get a big big trauma.
get over it...get over it!!!
things happen for a reason..
the day u find someone cutter or nicer...ull realize how stupid uve been.
that u were suffering for nothing.
theres someone better out there waiting for you im sure

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