I need help.i was adopted and my parents always put me down and i always feel like im never good enough.?!

Confront them. Let them know how much they make your heart ache when they put you down. Let them know that you are trying your best although that might not be enough for them but that''s all you've got. Speak out or this will continue. I hope you are close to the age to get out of this situation. Tell them you will not allow them to ruin your whole life because of their attempt to injure your self esteem. Let them know the effects this has on your self esteem. Tell them your ambitions and that you refuse to be like this to their grandchildren. Please don't hurt yourself, how is that going to solve the situation.? If you are in school, speak with the nurse and counselor about the mental abuse you suffer.

Otherwise, if I don't have to be around them, I don't. I avoid them and when they ask why, just tell them you don't feel like being put down.Health Question & Answer

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Instead of letting them put you down stand up for yourself and then you wont be struggling as much. All you have to do is make them aware of your feelings so you dont have to cut yourself or do any other behaviour that is avoiding the real issue.Health Question & Answer

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I have 4 children that ere adopted and one of them has the same problem as you. You need to find a professional counselor in your area, or better yet, a spiritual adviser like a Pastor to help give you guidance...Health Question & Answer

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Dont feel like that
No one has the right to put anyone down
obviously your parents have problems if they dont love you and tell you your special... try a counseller
please dont attempt suicide people DO love you

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