All Girls: Do you have Borderline Personality Disorder? ?!
Question: All Girls: Do you have Borderline Personality Disorder.? .?
If so, how are you dealing with it.? How has it affected your relationships.? If you have somehow recovered from it, how did you.?
I am suffering from it and chronicly depressed and want my ex bf back so badly......!Health Question & Answer
I am suffering from it and chronicly depressed and want my ex bf back so badly......!Health Question & Answer
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im male but im am learning to deal with it through therapy, it has screwed up every relationship i have had and i hope to recovor from it you just have to be determined enoughHealth Question & Answer
Personality Disorder is one of the most difficult mental health problems to treat (of them all). The degree of attention seeking behaviour displayed by people with PD is so extreme it exasperates the health care professionals. Ive worked with a few people diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, and although you probably wont like what I have to say I dont apologise as this is what I found. People with PD are totally self obsessed and are driven by a desperate need for attention. The desire for attention overrides all sense of logic.This finding (in my opinion) could hold a key to recovery. For example you say you suffer depression and want your ex bf back. I wonder if its your ego that is driving you to need the ex back more than a genuine love for him.? Are you really "depressed" over it or is your desire to get what you want so extreme that you dont even recognise it as just that.? I am not trying to offend you, as I have personally experienced a similar scenario, I wanted someone who didnt want me and it destroyed my life for years. I made myself severely depressed over it, and did all the wrong things to deal with the depression (drugs and alcohol) which only made it worse. However, after years of this self defeating behaviour, I realised I had probably never really loved the guy. All the "depression"was the result of my own ego not being able to deal with rejection. It made me hate myself until eventually it got out of hand. I took a really hard look at myself (Im sure I am an undiagnosed BPD) and realised that I had always been spoiled as a child by my mother (which caused all sorts of problems between my stepdad and myself). This dysfunctional combination had actually helped to create an unconscious personal desperation for attention (love) inside me. I had an insatiable appetite for attention. I craved attention and it started early in primary school with erratic behaviour being reported by my teachers throughout all school years until highschool (I eventually left to get a job... teachers couldnt handle me). I am probably talking too much (sry) but I sincerely believe that your BPD started at a particular point in your life, which only you can work out. I believe this is true for all BPD patients. You need to take a hard look at yourself and ask yourself WHY you seek your ex b/f s approval. You need to recognise the difference between love and your need for acceptance. Ask yourself if you do have a need for others approval and if so when did it start.? If you dont think you have a need for attention and approval from others maybe you arent soul searching hard or deep enough. You need to let your ex go. Dont let your need for acceptance turn you into a stalker. If it already has, stop it now. Learn about yourself. Look at your desire for attention and approval from others and work out when it started. Were you spoiled as a child.? Did you get everything you asked for.? This can cause problems in adulthood when we have to take NO for an answer and react to it through the eyes of a spoilt child within. Or alternatively, did you get neglected by someone who you desperately wanted attention from as a child.? I dont know what your circumstances are but Im willing to bet your BPD stems from an insatiable appetite for attention. If you can work out how it developed you can start working on reversing the process. Good luck. Health Question & Answer
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS border line personality... THINK about it.?can you really have it.?
its all made up.... if kid is throwing tantrum means ADHD.? and give him a pill.? no people are people, u just have to learn new ways to deal it with
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its all made up.... if kid is throwing tantrum means ADHD.? and give him a pill.? no people are people, u just have to learn new ways to deal it with
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