My dad is verbally abusive & controlling to his children &my mother. He never hit us,but he's wanted to and ?!
Question: My dad is verbally abusive & controlling to his children &my mother. He never hit us,but he's wanted to and .?
he showed signs of wanting to. He is very ordery and demanding. My mom has a nervous mental condition and she kinda i know it sounds rude she's kinda like a deer caught in the headlights all the time. She catters to every whim of my father. My father i feel like he hates me because i will stand up to him for his behavior. He has a history of his previous wife of being very violent i suspect that he put her in the hospital. My pheoncie was an extemely nice man but the moment he asked me to marry him he became controlling telling me want to say how to say something basically how to live. I have a problem with men I sorta hate them because every time I start to trust one of them and do what they say they start treating me like Im dirt or a dog. Im not gay. I have very hard time with men asking me out I turn them down automatically. How do I find a man that treats me like a person like a friend thats good to me and how do I fix this hatered I have towards them.? Please Help.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
looking for a good man is like looking for a good job. you have to do your homework. stop being a doormat. as long as you are doing anything a man tells you they will always take it as a sign of weakness. good decent men like a strong woman. that doesn't mean you have to be mean. let a man know up front what type of behavior you will and will not accept. and stick with it. if a man can get away with something one time he will try it again. don't hate all men based on the rude behavior of some. maybe you need to change the type of men that you are attracted to. don't sell yourself short, you're worth more than that. you owe it to yourself to be content and happy.Health Question & Answer