Am I crazy for thinking that I am invisible to others because I have plan jane features?!
Question: Am I crazy for thinking that I am invisible to others because I have plan jane features.?
I have an idea in my head that because I have dark brown hair, pale cream coloured skin and brown eyes that I am 'invisible' to others. This stems from the glorification of tanned skin and blonde hair, and the idea that brown eyes are common. I feel that I am a person that others don't even notice, or that I blend into the background of society. I know this sounds superficial and silly but that is how I feel every single day. I'm 21 and have felt this way forever. I just feel like no one notices pale skinned brunette girls and I feel like I am dead to this world. Is it true that no one notices pale skinned brunettes or am I crazy with weird ideas in my head.? I know its really sad that I am letting something like physical appearance get to me this way and I'm usually OK with it but atm I feel really down and I want others' opinions. All I ever hear is 'oh that hot blonde' never 'omg that hot brown haired girl with pale skin'... Pale skin is considered ugly these days. Thanks. Health Question & Answer
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For what its worth, they're my type :P Every one of my previous girlfriends has been pale and brown hairs, and absoloutely beautiful:) Dont cave in and dye your hair and wear too much fake tan till the point where you look like a bottle of fanta:) Health Question & Answer
Invisible...No. You just aren't getting a lot of recognition or attention.
Feeling good about yourself is important. Don't let jealousy ruin your life.
You can go out in the sun a little more if you think it'll help.Health Question & Answer
Feeling good about yourself is important. Don't let jealousy ruin your life.
You can go out in the sun a little more if you think it'll help.Health Question & Answer
yep superficial and silly gets it.Health Question & Answer