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Okay, I'm gonna make this long story short.
From working like crazy trying to get good grades
and working like crazy to lose 40 pounds,
I still don't see any improvement when that's all I do in my free time
I hate my dad. He's usually drunk and unemployed. He thinks he's such
a great father and husband when he's the reason my family life's so messed up.
i'm fifteen. I shouldn't have to go through all he's put me through.
and all my friends are being so complicated. lately, i don't even find myself
liking them...at all.
idk whats wrong with me.
i find myself crying every single night
i dont know what to do
i need help
somebody.? seriouslyHealth Question & Answer
From working like crazy trying to get good grades
and working like crazy to lose 40 pounds,
I still don't see any improvement when that's all I do in my free time
I hate my dad. He's usually drunk and unemployed. He thinks he's such
a great father and husband when he's the reason my family life's so messed up.
i'm fifteen. I shouldn't have to go through all he's put me through.
and all my friends are being so complicated. lately, i don't even find myself
liking them...at all.
idk whats wrong with me.
i find myself crying every single night
i dont know what to do
i need help
somebody.? seriouslyHealth Question & Answer
Answers:
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you so don't think that.
You are a victim to bad surroundings and it's as simple as that.
I'm not going to tell you to stop crying because that sometimes helps people. You're most likely not improving because in grades and losing weight because built up stress effects you physically and mentally. There isn't anyone who can give advice to fix your father into a better person because i don't think he considers every one around him.
My advice is to keep your friends and try to make them the center of your life because as long they are your friend, the bad times will pass and the good times will come again. You need friends to keep you out of complete darkness.
also, try improving relations with the family. Don't be afraid of what will happen no matter how bad it may come out on you. Someone needs to fix your family situation and since it seems to affect you the most, you should be able to produce better results than anyone else in the family. You need to express the pain you feel from the way the family is and show the utmost love and care for them.Health Question & Answer
You are a victim to bad surroundings and it's as simple as that.
I'm not going to tell you to stop crying because that sometimes helps people. You're most likely not improving because in grades and losing weight because built up stress effects you physically and mentally. There isn't anyone who can give advice to fix your father into a better person because i don't think he considers every one around him.
My advice is to keep your friends and try to make them the center of your life because as long they are your friend, the bad times will pass and the good times will come again. You need friends to keep you out of complete darkness.
also, try improving relations with the family. Don't be afraid of what will happen no matter how bad it may come out on you. Someone needs to fix your family situation and since it seems to affect you the most, you should be able to produce better results than anyone else in the family. You need to express the pain you feel from the way the family is and show the utmost love and care for them.Health Question & Answer
not in a bad way but...stop being selfish. So you have some extra pounds, that means that at least you have something to eat, just imagine how many people die because they don't. So you don't like your friends, and dad.? well you have a roof over your head, don't have to worry about where to spend the night, If your friends are not pretty enough and your family is a mess, chances are that it could be 100 times worst, so be thankful for what you have, move out, get a job, stop winning and do somethingHealth Question & Answer
You're not depressed, you're just a typical teenager feeling sorry for yourself.
I dealt with the same things you are dealing with when I was your age. Instead of worrying or crying over it, I stopped worrying about it. Your problems are nothing compared to what others deal with.
Why don't you get a part time job. That way you're busy, might lose some weight doing it, making money to move out in the future and away from your horrible father.
I'm telling you, I went through all of this. With the friends issue, if you don't like them any more, don't pretend to be their friends. It's a waste of time. People change, find people who connect to you. Health Question & Answer
I dealt with the same things you are dealing with when I was your age. Instead of worrying or crying over it, I stopped worrying about it. Your problems are nothing compared to what others deal with.
Why don't you get a part time job. That way you're busy, might lose some weight doing it, making money to move out in the future and away from your horrible father.
I'm telling you, I went through all of this. With the friends issue, if you don't like them any more, don't pretend to be their friends. It's a waste of time. People change, find people who connect to you. Health Question & Answer
Please don't cry. Have you ever heard the song: "Don't Worry, Be Happy.?" It came out maybe a decade ago so perhaps not. Maybe download that on your MP3 player or something. One of the reasons I don't want to have kids is because I am in the same shoes as your Dad and my kids would not respect me at all. Getting fired from work alot, though I don't drink alcohol anymore. Loafers shouldn't have children. At least he stuck around and didn't run out on you so totally ashamed of himself he can't face you.Health Question & Answer
1.your growing up
2. your dealing with the stress of ac hiving good grades to make yourself and your parents proud
3. your dad......... yeah...
4. Friends are that age are bipolar one minute your understand them the next you hate them.
5. you have alot to handle, you may a have a little bit of depression but not really.. lift your spirts up ..
your life could be alot worst.Health Question & Answer
2. your dealing with the stress of ac hiving good grades to make yourself and your parents proud
3. your dad......... yeah...
4. Friends are that age are bipolar one minute your understand them the next you hate them.
5. you have alot to handle, you may a have a little bit of depression but not really.. lift your spirts up ..
your life could be alot worst.Health Question & Answer
sorry to hear all this....you should talk with your mom or other family members if you can or social workers at school...i teach so i know they really are helpful....at least you know what type of men you don't want to have a relationship with...my dad was great but i must have dated all the jerks in my state!! so we are all kind of depressed/sad for diff. reasons...try to just focus on what makes you happier and avoid your dad at all times..good luck..you won't be in this situation foreverHealth Question & Answer
Your right. Your depressed. i would recommend talking to an adult you trust. (your favorite teacher, school counselor, or an adult that you look up too) also, exercise and forcing yourself to do things you normally would enjoy helps.Health Question & Answer
Just ignore everybody and find yourself new friends.Health Question & Answer