I feel so alone... I don't know what to do...?!
Question: I feel so alone... I don't know what to do....?
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Just ask her if she would mind...that you need someone to talk to and you feel most comfortable talking with her. I've had similar experiences and I know what ya mean-talking with a good friend or teacher is often just as helpful as talking with a counselor. However, as you well know, continue with your counseling, because you don't want these past horrors, coming back to haunt you when you are older and sometimes they do. Bless youHealth Question & Answer
It sounds like your instructor wants to help you. I think that if you want to talk to her make an appointment or approach her during office hours and tell her how you feel. However, i would recommend discussing your feelings with your counselor first. Good luck.Health Question & Answer
I don't know if you ever heard the song by the old band, Chicago called "loneliness is just a word"
it goes: Loneliness is just a word, so I've been told. Loneliness becomes a world, it's very cold.
People stare..blablabla.. Sorry..mind going blank here and I'm sure someone else might know the rest..
Anyway, I lived with that song in my head for years. I'm 49 and I lived with the thoughts that i was alone even though i had a family, kids, the works. i still felt very alone out there..
It was a very empty feeling for many years.
Though i was surrounded by people I didn't feel that i could connect with any of them. My own wife was always a very quiet person and we talked very little and my kids were kids. They didn't understand adult things and the feelings i was going through.
Now I use thge internet and i write a lot. i don't write to very many people on a regular basis, but there are a few.
My wife left a few years ago and now I'm a caregiver for an elderly woman and I live by myself out in her backyard in a little shack and i feel almost as if my life is full most of the time. I guess the reason is because now i have a reason for being here and that reason is 82 and she understands all those feelings of being alone in the world.
What I'm getting at is this.. Maybe you should give thought to becoming a caregiver or just visiting with elderly people and sitting and having conversations. Ask for friendship from them.
These are people who have lived for 70-80 and 90 years, been there, done that and many have been through more than we cant even begin to digest. Some are so very compassionate and wise its sometimes scary the knowledge they have gained over the course of a lifetime.
That's only the tip of the iceberg so to speak, but as far as this person you talk about... Why don't you re-write what you have written here and send it to her and see where it leads.? You might get an answer you want or you might get the answer you don't want, but at least you'll know one way or the other.
When I feel really alone, and i do often feel that way i sometimes just find a blog or whatever and write to that person. Sometimes it helps to just have another like-mind to share my thoughts with.. There are a lot of support groups online of people who go through very similar things as yours. Seek them out, but don't expect overnight miracles.. Unfortunately life just doesn't work that way.. There are no "instant feel good buttons" out there. But work at it.. You'll find someone out there you can connect with if you keep trying. Millions of lonely people spend countless hours online every day and night so don't feel to alone.
Good luck with things..
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it goes: Loneliness is just a word, so I've been told. Loneliness becomes a world, it's very cold.
People stare..blablabla.. Sorry..mind going blank here and I'm sure someone else might know the rest..
Anyway, I lived with that song in my head for years. I'm 49 and I lived with the thoughts that i was alone even though i had a family, kids, the works. i still felt very alone out there..
It was a very empty feeling for many years.
Though i was surrounded by people I didn't feel that i could connect with any of them. My own wife was always a very quiet person and we talked very little and my kids were kids. They didn't understand adult things and the feelings i was going through.
Now I use thge internet and i write a lot. i don't write to very many people on a regular basis, but there are a few.
My wife left a few years ago and now I'm a caregiver for an elderly woman and I live by myself out in her backyard in a little shack and i feel almost as if my life is full most of the time. I guess the reason is because now i have a reason for being here and that reason is 82 and she understands all those feelings of being alone in the world.
What I'm getting at is this.. Maybe you should give thought to becoming a caregiver or just visiting with elderly people and sitting and having conversations. Ask for friendship from them.
These are people who have lived for 70-80 and 90 years, been there, done that and many have been through more than we cant even begin to digest. Some are so very compassionate and wise its sometimes scary the knowledge they have gained over the course of a lifetime.
That's only the tip of the iceberg so to speak, but as far as this person you talk about... Why don't you re-write what you have written here and send it to her and see where it leads.? You might get an answer you want or you might get the answer you don't want, but at least you'll know one way or the other.
When I feel really alone, and i do often feel that way i sometimes just find a blog or whatever and write to that person. Sometimes it helps to just have another like-mind to share my thoughts with.. There are a lot of support groups online of people who go through very similar things as yours. Seek them out, but don't expect overnight miracles.. Unfortunately life just doesn't work that way.. There are no "instant feel good buttons" out there. But work at it.. You'll find someone out there you can connect with if you keep trying. Millions of lonely people spend countless hours online every day and night so don't feel to alone.
Good luck with things..
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try to just start talking to her on a casual talk and the next thing you know you will feel more comfortable and maybe then you can talk on a more serious level i am sure she would like to know how you feel. good luck ! I will say a prayer for you !Health Question & Answer
I'm a 17 year old female that is just starting college. I have washed my mom try to commit suicide, I have been raped by a neighbor at the age of 10, I was then molested by a teacher at 12, and then molested by a therapist at the ages of 12-15. So I know how you feel. I know that you are most likely having flashbacks and nightmares. I know that you can never let your guard down because you are scared that it will happen again. I know want it is like to want to just talk to a friend instead of a therapist. I just want you to know that you aren't alone. If you want to talk then just email me. I would be more then happy to talk to you.Health Question & Answer
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