Question:
Loneliness....................
Answers:
You sound depressed. Your way of dealing with it is to put up walls. (ie Pink Floyd's The Wall) That is not a healthy way of dealing with it. Try talking to someone you trust. If you trust no one, try a teacher or the school counselor. You need someone to help you. You don't have to go through this alone. Good Luck. :-)
In response to your comment: My answer is yes. From experience with dealing with people when depressed, when people put up walls or "turn to rock" they are turning off and hiding their true feelings. This will work for a little while but, when you do that you cut off your support system. I strongly believe with out people to talk to your spirit dies and you will sink back into that depressing. I had a friend that dealt with depression that way, he ended up killing himself because he felt no one cared. But, the truth was, his walls were too thick and when anyone would reach out to him, he would turn them away.Health Question & Answer
You care. You care deeply, or else you wouldn't be hurting like this.
You are trying to convince yourself you don't give a d--- and it isn't working.
Just be yourself, that's easy to say, but find something you LOVE and excel at and JUST DO IT! People will see your passion and naturally start to be drawn towards you.Health Question & Answer
you need to just be yourself---whatever that is---the you that you feel comfortable being. You do care, because if you didn't, you wouldn't be putting so much thought into what the problem is. maybe you realize that the friends you have are not real friends---you need to associate with a different crowd of people.Health Question & Answer
You need to find somebody to confide in that has been there. See your guidance people for direction.Health Question & Answer
i'd like to start off by saying that i know what it is like- to start off having friends, and then having none. (i just recently went to college) so i definitely know the feeling. and it pretty much sucks.
personally, i think you DO still care. nobody likes being alone, and it's very difficult to convince yourself that you're happy when there's nobody around. and "unfeeling" is DEFINITELY different than happy. maybe you just need other friends....? Health Question & Answer
Question: Loneliness....................
Answers:
You sound depressed. Your way of dealing with it is to put up walls. (ie Pink Floyd's The Wall) That is not a healthy way of dealing with it. Try talking to someone you trust. If you trust no one, try a teacher or the school counselor. You need someone to help you. You don't have to go through this alone. Good Luck. :-)
In response to your comment: My answer is yes. From experience with dealing with people when depressed, when people put up walls or "turn to rock" they are turning off and hiding their true feelings. This will work for a little while but, when you do that you cut off your support system. I strongly believe with out people to talk to your spirit dies and you will sink back into that depressing. I had a friend that dealt with depression that way, he ended up killing himself because he felt no one cared. But, the truth was, his walls were too thick and when anyone would reach out to him, he would turn them away.Health Question & Answer
In response to your comment: My answer is yes. From experience with dealing with people when depressed, when people put up walls or "turn to rock" they are turning off and hiding their true feelings. This will work for a little while but, when you do that you cut off your support system. I strongly believe with out people to talk to your spirit dies and you will sink back into that depressing. I had a friend that dealt with depression that way, he ended up killing himself because he felt no one cared. But, the truth was, his walls were too thick and when anyone would reach out to him, he would turn them away.Health Question & Answer
You care. You care deeply, or else you wouldn't be hurting like this.
You are trying to convince yourself you don't give a d--- and it isn't working.
Just be yourself, that's easy to say, but find something you LOVE and excel at and JUST DO IT! People will see your passion and naturally start to be drawn towards you.Health Question & Answer
You are trying to convince yourself you don't give a d--- and it isn't working.
Just be yourself, that's easy to say, but find something you LOVE and excel at and JUST DO IT! People will see your passion and naturally start to be drawn towards you.Health Question & Answer
you need to just be yourself---whatever that is---the you that you feel comfortable being. You do care, because if you didn't, you wouldn't be putting so much thought into what the problem is. maybe you realize that the friends you have are not real friends---you need to associate with a different crowd of people.Health Question & Answer
You need to find somebody to confide in that has been there. See your guidance people for direction.Health Question & Answer
i'd like to start off by saying that i know what it is like- to start off having friends, and then having none. (i just recently went to college) so i definitely know the feeling. and it pretty much sucks.
personally, i think you DO still care. nobody likes being alone, and it's very difficult to convince yourself that you're happy when there's nobody around. and "unfeeling" is DEFINITELY different than happy. maybe you just need other friends....? Health Question & Answer
personally, i think you DO still care. nobody likes being alone, and it's very difficult to convince yourself that you're happy when there's nobody around. and "unfeeling" is DEFINITELY different than happy. maybe you just need other friends....? Health Question & Answer
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