What can i do to make my girlfriend understand that i am not the reason her bipolar is ******* her head up?!

I have taken many bipolar tests and I am bipolar positive, so I kinda know where she's coming from. I think you should just take her to the doctor, get her some meds, and support her in any way you can - even just taking her for lunch or bringing her a cup of tea can help. She needs some councilling organised, but if she wants to leave you, you can't stop her. Make sure she is going in the right direction in her life, bbut if that dosent help you might have to let her go. good luck xHealth Question & Answer

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You have to let her do whatever she needs to do and be there to support her as and when you requires it. My late husband had bipolar and it is hell trying to cope with it. Your girlfriend doesn't have the same thought process as you so you will probably never get her to comprehend that you are not responsible for her illness. Maybe it's better she does leave you - for both of youHealth Question & Answer

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If she thinks it is you she is denying her problem. She needs medication and possibly ccounseling In time (depending how bad it is) she will come to terms with it and deal with her life differently. Just be her friend and try not to let her use you as her scape goat.
Sometimes relationship conflicts ddon'thelp the bipolar so try and steer clear of anything that might upset her until she adjusts to her meds.
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Being someone with Bipolar, I'm not entirely sure why she thinks you are the reason for her bipolar. I would be interested in more details. How long has she had this, when did she start blaming you and more information about your relationship. If you wish to discuss it more, my e-mail is richardcawtheray42@hotmail.com
A further note would be to leave out comments like "******* her head up."Health Question & Answer

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Just stay consistent, she will know what is going on, but due to her illness, she will come across otherwise. If at the end of the episode, you are still there, I am sure she will be grateful, remorseful, and all the other emotions that go with the territory.Health Question & Answer

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i'm on the same boat as you mate, medicine only works for some people. just be there for her where u can - even if this leads to a break up - still be her friend. its not the relationship that needs help - its her. so be there for her. be her friend. hopefully things clear up and goodluckHealth Question & Answer

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is she taking her medicine.? I would say honestly theres probably not alot your going to do to fix this if u know what i mean.?
is she seeking help from the medical field.? thats the best advice I'd give you.. good luck seems like your going to need it..Health Question & Answer

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is she on medication.? that is the most important and first step to treating bipolar ... otherwise just love her and when she feels she has nothing going for her just hug her ...Health Question & Answer

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I don't think ther'es a lot you can do other than making sure she's on the right meds.Health Question & Answer

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dude if her head is fckd you shouldnt be with her anyway, ditch her and move on.Health Question & Answer

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