Low confidence can you help?!


Question: Low confidence can you help.?
i want to raise my confidence because its very low. i dont like what i see when i look in the mirror at all. i se myself then see other guys and i get sad because i think im ugly. i dont walk with my head down but i dont like to walk with my head up because people might be saying something about me. im also very self consciouss and i want to get over that as well. but whats funny is that i have one of the most popular cutest girl in school has a crush on me since last year. i even have grown women telling my mom im sexy and cute. ive heard everything you cuold that a girl likes you and thats what this girl is doing and i still dont believe she does. i feel that i shouldnt even have a chance with her because im not confident and im not popular.but she likes me. and i like her

i try to findout what wrong with me and i realized that the only thing i dont like is my forehead and i can only fit 4 fingers on there. so its not gigantic. neither is my head and that i was called ugly and fag in elemntary and middle skool but i was probably one of the best looking in and probly still am. i cant find out wats wrong with me and i know i should be grateful to look as good as i do because i know theres more ugly people then me and my family is not ugly.

can you give me some tips on what to do.

ps: im not doin therapyHealth Question & Answer


Answers:
honestly lol
u keep saying ur not ugly, so 1. ur prob not 2. that shows u do have confidence and 3. girls will think u look hot if they like ur personality. Idk if this has happened to u but a really annoying girl who suddenly turns out to be chill will suddenly look ALOT better. Just go wit it. Who cares if ur "popular".? most popular people are dickwads neways. Start talking to her and eventually get her number. Text her and if she seems to be continuing the convo or starting them at all, then keep going. It will work itself outHealth Question & Answer

Low self-esteem...same as me, i hate taking pictures, i hate looking myself in the mirror and im a shy guy....but most of the pretty girls around are my friends and im happy about that..(: i dont see myself as a handsome guy...What to do.?

Make as many friends as possible and that may build up you confidence in a certain way which is hard to explain.....Health Question & Answer

first of all u shouldn't care what other ppl think...
if you say ur not ugly then maybe u aren't go ahead ask the gurl out and see where it goes from thereHealth Question & Answer



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