I'm terrified of being left, advice?!
Question: I'm terrified of being left, advice.?
I'm freakishly afraid of guys leaving me, How do I know if a guy is real and means what he says or not.?Health Question & Answer
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The longer you spend with someone, the more you can figure this out. Unfortunately you can never truly know if anyone, including guys, mean what they say.
I would suggest you spend some time thinking or talking with a trusted person as to why you are so afraid of guys leaving you. You hand over a lot of control and power to guys when they sense that you desperately want to keep the relationship going. This could make you vulnerable to manipulation and cause you even more heartache in the long run. Additionally, sometimes circumstances change. Guys might mean what they say in the moment but change their minds later. Unpredictability is a fact of life and breakups are a normal part of the dating process. Hope for the best but be sure that you are prepared mentally and emotionally for less than ideal outcomes for your relationships. You will do yourself and your future partners a big favour.Health Question & Answer
I would suggest you spend some time thinking or talking with a trusted person as to why you are so afraid of guys leaving you. You hand over a lot of control and power to guys when they sense that you desperately want to keep the relationship going. This could make you vulnerable to manipulation and cause you even more heartache in the long run. Additionally, sometimes circumstances change. Guys might mean what they say in the moment but change their minds later. Unpredictability is a fact of life and breakups are a normal part of the dating process. Hope for the best but be sure that you are prepared mentally and emotionally for less than ideal outcomes for your relationships. You will do yourself and your future partners a big favour.Health Question & Answer
You're never going to know, that's why you have to trust yourself and your instincts. You have to be good with you, before anyone else can be good with you.
I think you may be a little insecure. Are you in school.? If you are, you should see your counselor. I also think you should ditch guys for right now and find out what makes you happy, so that you're not relying on someone else to make you happy.
butterbean: goodness, thats really bad advice, lol.Health Question & Answer
I think you may be a little insecure. Are you in school.? If you are, you should see your counselor. I also think you should ditch guys for right now and find out what makes you happy, so that you're not relying on someone else to make you happy.
butterbean: goodness, thats really bad advice, lol.Health Question & Answer
Learn to trust.
The more insecure you are about a guy, that more you'll be alienating him away from you. You'll start to act out of jealousy and insecurity, doing many malicious and harmful things to your relationship without even realizing it.
You want to know if a guy is real or not.? Learn to trust him. Enjoy the time you have with him and be more than just his girlfriend. Be his best friend. Even if he was doubting you before, he will be convinced to make that special place in his heart for you.
There's no point in asking people on the internet what to do about him. Ask your heart.Health Question & Answer
The more insecure you are about a guy, that more you'll be alienating him away from you. You'll start to act out of jealousy and insecurity, doing many malicious and harmful things to your relationship without even realizing it.
You want to know if a guy is real or not.? Learn to trust him. Enjoy the time you have with him and be more than just his girlfriend. Be his best friend. Even if he was doubting you before, he will be convinced to make that special place in his heart for you.
There's no point in asking people on the internet what to do about him. Ask your heart.Health Question & Answer
this is a very difficult concept here... there is no knowing anything... you can know and JUST know it when you KNOW KNOW he is saying something and you feel in your heart it is true. see if his morals are true, see how he treats and respects other people.? especially his family you know.? you will know in time if you want to give time into this, i know this is hard to do, but do no be afraid we all learn from our mistakes in life :) --- just keep your head up high. Health Question & Answer
You have trust issues that you need to seek professional help for. Your happiness/stability in life should never depend on another person. Once you've dealt with and overcome this issue, you will be much better at gauging men and your relationship with them, instead of suffocating them and driving them off or worse, being with a control freak!
Good luck!Health Question & Answer
Good luck!Health Question & Answer
my girlfriend just told me she wanted to go on a "break" with no set end date for the break. so my advice to you is to not trust anybody because i had been going out with this girl for 18 months and i had little idea that she would break up with me.
from my experience i can tell you that anything and everything you, I , and all of us love, will eventually betray us and leave us worse than we started out. don't ever get involved with anybody. people are waste.Health Question & Answer
from my experience i can tell you that anything and everything you, I , and all of us love, will eventually betray us and leave us worse than we started out. don't ever get involved with anybody. people are waste.Health Question & Answer
hey im only 16 my opinion might mean **** to you but i been through so much to the point of suicide im better now but i get through the day by thinkin ''dont be afraid of nuthin but god'' wats the wordt dat can happen lifes too short to be afraid and sorry if this is uselessHealth Question & Answer
I believe time... watch to see how consistant he is. If he says he's going to do something, will he do it.? But seriously, if your going to begin a relationship, try getting to know him before you go out with him. Be his friend, his best friend. And if your meant to be together, then it will all work out. It would be better to enter a relationship with someone you know, then someone you don't!Health Question & Answer
Is your father in your life.?
Most guys don't mean what they say. Be skeptical of words unless the guy's actions back them up.Health Question & Answer
Most guys don't mean what they say. Be skeptical of words unless the guy's actions back them up.Health Question & Answer
past behavior is a good indicator of future behavior. Unless, someone truly takes steps to change. Health Question & Answer