I'm really having a hard time... i need a humorous advice to this.. ?!
Question: I'm really having a hard time... i need a humorous advice to this.. .?
I want to be alone all the time.. but i feel like its not right because i know i haven't solved some of my problems in the past i feel like its still there.. however i just want to be in peace already and forget about those problems but everytime im just bothered by it.. i feel like i can't move on with life because of this..
i want to do something about it.. but i just dont feel like doing anything about it..
when im alone i feel safe but when im about to meet my friends whom i have not been havng communication with for months already i feel like i have to put an act again. so i wonder if the security that i feel when im alone is all false and im not really facing reality.....? what do you think.?Health Question & Answer
i want to do something about it.. but i just dont feel like doing anything about it..
when im alone i feel safe but when im about to meet my friends whom i have not been havng communication with for months already i feel like i have to put an act again. so i wonder if the security that i feel when im alone is all false and im not really facing reality.....? what do you think.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
Actually if you ask me, it seems as though you are quite safe when you are alone. The fact that you have to put on an act aka gas face when you are with your friends is scary because you are coming out of who you are to be something else. Facing what is your problem is your best bet and after you solve them I think everything will fall into place. As for the humorous part-----
The next time you have to get together with your friends and they call you up, just tell them "kiss my *** I don't feel like being a clown tonight, maybe next time". Then show up anyway and say cant you take a joke. See what their reaction is and its up to you to take it from there
Personally being around anybody that I cant be myself is draining too much work and wasted energy. I might as well come from behind the scenes and become an actress 24/7 Health Question & Answer
The next time you have to get together with your friends and they call you up, just tell them "kiss my *** I don't feel like being a clown tonight, maybe next time". Then show up anyway and say cant you take a joke. See what their reaction is and its up to you to take it from there
Personally being around anybody that I cant be myself is draining too much work and wasted energy. I might as well come from behind the scenes and become an actress 24/7 Health Question & Answer
being alone is not a bad thing, infact I prefer to be alone anymore then around any of my friends. I can still be me, and who I am regardless of being around them, but being alone stops all the drama and all the stuff that they try to pull you into. The best advice I can give you is just be who you are, don't put on an act cause people can see right through that and that makes it worse. whether your around others or by yourself just be you. do what makes you feel good and happy about you.Health Question & Answer
Whatever problems you have you need to pull them to the front and deal with them. You cannot bury something that is still alive. being alone with your own thoughts can sometimes be bad. You can talk yourself out of stuff that needs to be done. It' s ok to drop your guard every now and then. I'm sure you're friends notice that something is going on. and I'm sure they are concerned for you. You are sitting in a rocking chair putting out a lot of effort and going nowhere. Get Up!!!:)Health Question & Answer
Have you always felt like this.? If something has changed I would go and get some medical attention. Things of this nature aren't necessarily a 'just deal with it' solution. They need to be worked through professionally. Health Question & Answer
concentrate on other things or new things. decide if you really want to end or forget the "past".Health Question & Answer