Do i has mental illness or is this all normal?!
Question: Do i has mental illness or is this all normal.?
Is this signs of mental illness.?
do i have mental illness, this is serious no joking please.
i have these issues don't know why i don't feel comfortable in bars or clubs where lots of people are. i feel 'safe' confined in small rooms alone like a bedroom or living area. not in public i just want to get out from public and go back inside asap. i don't like seeing old friends i knew from HS or college anymore.
i have never date or have bf or sex and i'm 27. is that too old for virgin girl.? that is what all male friends use to tell me, i wait too long for sex and now it's weird.
also when people is talking to me i do not know how long to look at their face or when to look away. i mean it seem natural for other people but i have to think about stuff like that. it seem like i don't kno proper reactions to things other people think is natural.
is these mental illness problems or something else.? worth noting i used to be outgoing but that was many years ago like in jr. high school and high school.
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do i have mental illness, this is serious no joking please.
i have these issues don't know why i don't feel comfortable in bars or clubs where lots of people are. i feel 'safe' confined in small rooms alone like a bedroom or living area. not in public i just want to get out from public and go back inside asap. i don't like seeing old friends i knew from HS or college anymore.
i have never date or have bf or sex and i'm 27. is that too old for virgin girl.? that is what all male friends use to tell me, i wait too long for sex and now it's weird.
also when people is talking to me i do not know how long to look at their face or when to look away. i mean it seem natural for other people but i have to think about stuff like that. it seem like i don't kno proper reactions to things other people think is natural.
is these mental illness problems or something else.? worth noting i used to be outgoing but that was many years ago like in jr. high school and high school.
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most of this sounds normal enough.
like you might be an introvert ( no problem) but you may have developed social anxiety or social phobia. both treatable.
"also when people is talking to me i do not know how long to look at their face or when to look away. i mean it seem natural for other people but i have to think about stuff like that. it seem like i don't know proper reactions to things other people think is natural."
that part is interesting. nothing else you said suggested Asperger's syndrome, but that does. Please don't freak out. NOTHING else you have said sounds like Asperger's, it is unlikely that that is your problem. MANY more symptoms are needed for that diagnosis.
it might just as well mean that you were born into one culture, and now you mostly interact in another culture.
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like you might be an introvert ( no problem) but you may have developed social anxiety or social phobia. both treatable.
"also when people is talking to me i do not know how long to look at their face or when to look away. i mean it seem natural for other people but i have to think about stuff like that. it seem like i don't know proper reactions to things other people think is natural."
that part is interesting. nothing else you said suggested Asperger's syndrome, but that does. Please don't freak out. NOTHING else you have said sounds like Asperger's, it is unlikely that that is your problem. MANY more symptoms are needed for that diagnosis.
it might just as well mean that you were born into one culture, and now you mostly interact in another culture.
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It could be a form of social anxiety.
There is a difference between not WANTING to be social, and not being able to be social, or fearing it.
When it becomes a "can't", then you have a problem.Health Question & Answer
There is a difference between not WANTING to be social, and not being able to be social, or fearing it.
When it becomes a "can't", then you have a problem.Health Question & Answer
Hey babe.
To me it sounds like your having arguments with your subconscience!
Why are you doubting evrything. It seems your confidence needs a boost but i certainly would'nt say you have a mental illness sweetheart.
I myself can only handle clubs and large gatherings of people for so long and then Im outa there. I dont do crowds, infact I prefer the comfort of being home own my own and I love it. I certainly dont have a mental illness. Ok, your 27 and your not exactly sexually active, so bloody what!!! Its just that the right man has'nt come along yet. Dont put so much pressure on yourself or allow anyone to pressure you. Im 43 and never been married simply because the right one has'nt walked by yet but im happy. Some of us are late blommers and some of us are a little cautious but thats fine honey.
Here's a tip for when your having a conversation with anyone...! If you find it hard to look at them while you speak or they speak, look at their mouth only because when you scan you catch their eyes and thats when you tend to question yourself. You may have to master this sweetheart because when Mr Right walks by and glares at you , youre gona bloody have to glare back are'nt you .? All in good time honey.
Let me know your birth day and star sign because you could have something special going on here and it aint a mental illness. Yes you are different honey and there's something you need to tell me before I can help you further. Talk to me babe as i can certainly relate to your issues.Health Question & Answer
To me it sounds like your having arguments with your subconscience!
Why are you doubting evrything. It seems your confidence needs a boost but i certainly would'nt say you have a mental illness sweetheart.
I myself can only handle clubs and large gatherings of people for so long and then Im outa there. I dont do crowds, infact I prefer the comfort of being home own my own and I love it. I certainly dont have a mental illness. Ok, your 27 and your not exactly sexually active, so bloody what!!! Its just that the right man has'nt come along yet. Dont put so much pressure on yourself or allow anyone to pressure you. Im 43 and never been married simply because the right one has'nt walked by yet but im happy. Some of us are late blommers and some of us are a little cautious but thats fine honey.
Here's a tip for when your having a conversation with anyone...! If you find it hard to look at them while you speak or they speak, look at their mouth only because when you scan you catch their eyes and thats when you tend to question yourself. You may have to master this sweetheart because when Mr Right walks by and glares at you , youre gona bloody have to glare back are'nt you .? All in good time honey.
Let me know your birth day and star sign because you could have something special going on here and it aint a mental illness. Yes you are different honey and there's something you need to tell me before I can help you further. Talk to me babe as i can certainly relate to your issues.Health Question & Answer
sounds a bit like me. If you want a man sooooo badly you will meet him very soon if you just carry on being honest and open like you ar being right now 27 is NOT OLD its young!!!! I lost my viginity at 24 hope that makes you feel better. Sounds alot like mild depression make sure you do something NOW before its too late. I have severe depression and its all because I was too scared to go doctors. If you leave it too long you will end like me. If you want you could take st johns wort you can buy this from any boots or superdrug chemist. It good for mild depression. Im no doctor but I have felt like you did before (when I was 14/15) and I ignored it and doctors ALMOST ALWAYS ignore depression (90% of doctors mis-diagnose depressed patients- especially young people like you) only YOU know what the matter is and why. Wish you all the best!Health Question & Answer
Sounds like me. Im a 16 year old guy and I actually feel the same way as you even about the sex! Like I want it but I just want to be comfortable but not all wierd about it. I also avoid large social gatherings but i feel fine like at my house and stuff. It sucks when you want to be a social person so badly but that thing that horrible feeling blocks your head and your actions and keeps you from who you want to be. The only time that i start to do better is when I stop thinking about the fear and then I seem to reset my head to "normal" for a while. Health Question & Answer