I have serious problem every time a guy sexually harass's me one time instead of hitting him I get shakey and?!
Question: I have serious problem every time a guy sexually harass's me one time instead of hitting him I get shakey and.?
cuss him out and I don't hit or him or nothing its like Im scared. I want to physically hit them. I was physically assaulted one time in my life and I fought back but I felt helpless. What should I do to make myself violent to casual harassers.? Please no criticizing advice.Health Question & Answer
Answers:
You dont need to make your self violent. Just well known to them that you're not taking 5h!t from anyone. Look confidence, dont look scared when you think someone might... dont look vulnerable. And yes i know easier said than done. But show them your not afraid to yell (dont go around just yelling all the time) but show them you got what it takes. Health Question & Answer
It seems like you have more of a mental block than anything else. This person has overstepped a boundary and you have every right to hit and/or curse them out. You don't need to make yourself violent with them if you don't want to and if the violation is that bad you can always call the cops. It can also be that maybe somewhere deep down inside you feel like you caused them to overstep certain boundaries and that is why you feel like you have no right to stop or hit them. It's your body and it is up to you to make that decision. No one else. If you really feel that powerless, and you aren't the only one trust me, you can take martial arts classes, you will feel empowered and in truth you will be because you will now have the power to truly stand up for yourself. If all else fails, get some mace. Nothing says "don't come near me again" like some hot pepper in your eye! Good luck!Health Question & Answer