Give me what do you think,,they say i`m a rebel and i ,,,?!
Question: Give me what do you think,,they say i`m a rebel and i ,,,.?
I know this sounds silly but I got up today and thought if I was not here ,lives of others would be better and if I was cold hearted like I m now ,my life wont be that hard
Not that I lived the worst life, but I always feel that I done so many mistakes and it always make me feel worthless and guilty ,
I was always the girl that do what they want *people around me*I didn
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Not that I lived the worst life, but I always feel that I done so many mistakes and it always make me feel worthless and guilty ,
I was always the girl that do what they want *people around me*I didn
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I'm sorry you're so down on your self-image. I think it's time you went to see a therapist and hope you have medical insurance to cover the cost. Due to being encouraged as a rebel, since you were very young, this is the image you've taken on because it was accepted that you were free to exercise this. While you were obedient, having to conform to being obedient angered your rebellious side and it seems the anger has prevented you from being happy. You weren't in control of your actions and feelings at the time, as you were only a child, so felt others were bending you to fit their mold and you had to obey, probably, more often than you wanted to.There are many people who have control issues such as you have but, if you had received the proper guidance and discipline at an early age, it's doubtful you would be allowing this to take over your life. You have a controlling personality disorder which I know I have, to some extent, but my sister is much worse than I am!
Since you realize there is a Big Problem which is preventing you from enjoying your time on earth, it's very important you take the first step towards receiving the help that you need. Going to therapy will prove to be difficult for you due to giving control to someone else, even though it's a temporary situation The main thing you must keep in your mind is the number of years the therapist has invested in an education so she/he can exercise their Gift of being a Helper. I hope you will make the decision to step forward to go to someone and then, step aside (a bit) to enable this person to help you learn how to achieve the self-confidence you need to become the woman God intended.
Everyone has "patches" when they feel worthless and guilty - it's the guilt which makes us feel worthless but no-one needs to have guilt when they can lay their burdens at the foot of the cross of Calvary. You've done things Your Way for quite a number of years and, since it's not proven to be successful for you, it must be time to explore Other Avenues. Ask God to guide you to the right person.Health Question & Answer
Since you realize there is a Big Problem which is preventing you from enjoying your time on earth, it's very important you take the first step towards receiving the help that you need. Going to therapy will prove to be difficult for you due to giving control to someone else, even though it's a temporary situation The main thing you must keep in your mind is the number of years the therapist has invested in an education so she/he can exercise their Gift of being a Helper. I hope you will make the decision to step forward to go to someone and then, step aside (a bit) to enable this person to help you learn how to achieve the self-confidence you need to become the woman God intended.
Everyone has "patches" when they feel worthless and guilty - it's the guilt which makes us feel worthless but no-one needs to have guilt when they can lay their burdens at the foot of the cross of Calvary. You've done things Your Way for quite a number of years and, since it's not proven to be successful for you, it must be time to explore Other Avenues. Ask God to guide you to the right person.Health Question & Answer
I can tell you this you weren't a rebel you were a people pleases honey I was a rebel I wean twenty years later my family doesn't want me but that's ok I even lost my Mother without being told you don't want to be hurt anymore if you need to talk I'm here Health Question & Answer
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