How bad has my life been?!


Question: How bad has my life been.?
My life has been hell my dad died when I was 11 and all through school I was bullied. I was also abused by a relative for over 3 years and ended up working for Gangsters doing terrable things I didnt want to do and these Gangsters got me hooked on drugs.
So knowing that how bad do you think my life has been.? Health Question & Answer


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Think about those stock brokers who are going to kill them selves. Your life is better than theirsHealth Question & Answer

As most of this happened when you had no control over things, i sympathise. You now are an adult so please for your own well being and piece of mind stop being that frightened person, believe in yourself. Show those that have hurt or abused you just how resilient you are by not using your past life experiences as a crutch you can lean on for the rest of your life. Show your strength, and lock away all those bad things in memory boxes. For your eyes only each memory has its own box inside your head, that stays shut until you decide to open it. When you do, laugh, cry, get angry or whatever. When you've finished looking at it shut the lid tightly and move on to the next one.You can control it with the right attitude and determination,and most importantly remember that someone,somewhere is worse off than you'll ever be! Good luck xHealth Question & Answer

You may feel pretty bad right now but focusing on negative things in your life only makes things worse. Only you can change your life and it begins with your thought processes. Think of one good thing each day and your attitude will improve over time. You may not think you've got even one good thing in your life - how about the fact that you are alive - it may not be much but it's a start. How about someone somewhere on this planet loves you - that's pretty spesh!! CheersHealth Question & Answer

Sorry, but I think that's just a little bit shallow...
How bad has this kid's life been.?
"I was born in Uganda, I am 12 years old now. We went without food for weeks, my two sisters died and my mother is a prostitute, most people want me in the payment too, and when we are in a desperate situation, mum makes me do jobs for them too.
I now have AIDs, as does Mum, and we have no hope. The life expectancy here is 25, the oldest member of our colony died last week at 30. No one can help, we live each day as it comes. We can only hope for better, but we are realistic enough to realise it's not going to come."
How bad has your life been.? Honestly mate, yeah bad things happen, but you have food, you have family, you are living, you can change. This kid, 12 years old, cannot. Instead of just lingering on in the past, make a change and stop asking for attention on a site by people RATING your life.
Move on, give, don't take.Health Question & Answer

You had a trauma at a young age. You had low self-esteem, and possibly no male role mode, hence the bullying and falling in with the wrong crowd later.

Your life doesn't have to carry on being bad.......see your doctor about help in getting off drugs, and keep away (move away if possible) from any villains. Make a better future for yourself, and be a good person that your dad would have been proud ofHealth Question & Answer

Yeah, it's been pretty crappy, but it's hard to tell how crappy, when there are so many worse things that could've happened. You just never know.

Many of us have had crappy lives, including myself. I learned not to judge myself, and the day I put it all behind me and just became a new person, was the day my life got better. I try not to even reflect on the past. I just keep living in the present. I think that it you do that, your life assessment will drastically change.

Now that you're out of those situations and you're able to change what life *was*, you will be able to make it what you *want* it to be. Just put the past behind you as best as you can, and be the best person you are able to be. Everyone will love you and you'll be very happy. Trust me, I've been there/done that.Health Question & Answer

Dreadful! Reading things like this makes me realise how extraordinarily lucky I've been.

I hope you are able to see that life can be good. It isn't easy, but only you can make your life better and you've got to force yourself to head out of the bad times and think more of what you want your future to be, not dwell on what is past. You can't change the past, but you CAN shape your future.

Good luck.Health Question & Answer

I been through much worse ,and i am still makin it. God puts you through trials in life to make you stronger.If you break down he gives you more to make you stronger.When your alllllll the way down the only place to go is up,right.Hang in there and dont break ,learn.Health Question & Answer

it probally was not the best life but you now have a chance to make a diffrents and have a life that you want. The only person that (or should) control your life is you.Health Question & Answer

You can change it, and I hope you do, change your friends, and move to another town where you can start over. God Bless.Health Question & Answer

Sounds like you had a lot of good times. You blame others for your choices like drugs. Some people have no legs. Stop complaining.Health Question & Answer

Pretty crappy. But you can change it, which I think you know. moieHealth Question & Answer

7/10 You can change it though.Health Question & Answer

The fact that you see how bad it has been means you are wanting something better.Health Question & Answer

things willl get better.Health Question & Answer

don't evaluate ....try to make it better.. :)Health Question & Answer

it was fun!Health Question & Answer



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