BIG crisis at school!!?!
Question: BIG crisis at school!!.?
I'm not looking for a relationship at the moment cus i'm attempting to build confidence and self esteem and grades etc before doing so... a lot of shite is goin off at home atm so ive been tryin to keep clear of any extra emotional feelings e.g. liking girls and stuff
There is this girl i've known for ages, and i know she likes me, i implied that i liked her too at one point, but then i told her that i'm not looking for a gf atm.. so what do i do today.? being the prick that i am i met someone else and we got on really well and we kissed on the bus.. then the girl than ive known for ages sees it from accross the pavement!!.. she is furious cus she really likes me, ad now ive told the girl i met i dont want a gf.. they both absoultely hate me and i feel like ive lost alot in just 1 hour! what can i do.?.? ive told them both i'm really sorry and that i also think im a prick.. :(..
this has all made my depression and self esteem levels go from "progressing" to "absolute shite".. i feel the self work ive done for my confidence and stuff for the last 4 weeks has gone down the drain cus of my stupid weak mind earlier. ffsHealth Question & Answer
There is this girl i've known for ages, and i know she likes me, i implied that i liked her too at one point, but then i told her that i'm not looking for a gf atm.. so what do i do today.? being the prick that i am i met someone else and we got on really well and we kissed on the bus.. then the girl than ive known for ages sees it from accross the pavement!!.. she is furious cus she really likes me, ad now ive told the girl i met i dont want a gf.. they both absoultely hate me and i feel like ive lost alot in just 1 hour! what can i do.?.? ive told them both i'm really sorry and that i also think im a prick.. :(..
this has all made my depression and self esteem levels go from "progressing" to "absolute shite".. i feel the self work ive done for my confidence and stuff for the last 4 weeks has gone down the drain cus of my stupid weak mind earlier. ffsHealth Question & Answer
Answers:
Hi James,
Firstly, don't stress, you really haven't done anything wrong. It's not like you've cheated on one of the girls, so in all fairness, the 1st girl (the one who saw you kissing the other) can't really get angry with you (of course she can be a bit upset since she like you, but can't take it out on you)
They both seem quite pissed with you at the moment, but that won't last forever. Try and persist with both of them, and rebuild your friendships with them again. Keep in mind that they may not want to, and can't be forced, but at least you've tried.
Is there one that you like more than the other.? If so, beg her for forgiveness, and pursue her.
BTW, after your previous questions, very happy that you're coming out of your shell, and approaching people! :D Well done!!!
~NickiHealth Question & Answer
Firstly, don't stress, you really haven't done anything wrong. It's not like you've cheated on one of the girls, so in all fairness, the 1st girl (the one who saw you kissing the other) can't really get angry with you (of course she can be a bit upset since she like you, but can't take it out on you)
They both seem quite pissed with you at the moment, but that won't last forever. Try and persist with both of them, and rebuild your friendships with them again. Keep in mind that they may not want to, and can't be forced, but at least you've tried.
Is there one that you like more than the other.? If so, beg her for forgiveness, and pursue her.
BTW, after your previous questions, very happy that you're coming out of your shell, and approaching people! :D Well done!!!
~NickiHealth Question & Answer
Take stuff as it comes.
I would try and make it up with the girl who's liked you for a long time. I don't see why she shouldn't forgive you because it sounds like you're really sorry.
And if you do get together, then you get together. And that will help you to build your confidence and if you keep working hard then your grades shouldn't deteriate or anything.Health Question & Answer
I would try and make it up with the girl who's liked you for a long time. I don't see why she shouldn't forgive you because it sounds like you're really sorry.
And if you do get together, then you get together. And that will help you to build your confidence and if you keep working hard then your grades shouldn't deteriate or anything.Health Question & Answer
Try sitting them both down together and explain to them exactly what is going on with you right now, they should understand. The one girl that you have known for ages that really likes you alot should understand more than the other girl and she will probably become your rock through it all. Good luck!Health Question & Answer
If i were you i would screw those girlks (not literally i mean like leave them) and just concentrate! your obviously young so you aint gonna spend the rest pof your lives with these girls and nothing will come out of either of these relationships
just leave them both...stick to male friends ~(not like that) and focus on your gradesHealth Question & Answer
just leave them both...stick to male friends ~(not like that) and focus on your gradesHealth Question & Answer
i think you should sent a link of this question to the girl you like! she will know you are very sorry! aww don't worry honey it all will be fine!Health Question & Answer
tell them sorry and just let it goHealth Question & Answer
well i wud say to the girl you have known for ages that she came onto you obviosly dont tell the other one that then keep on appoligizing and hugging her intill she forgives you then once she has forgiven you tell her that your not looking for a relationship because of things at home but ask her if she wonts to be really good freinds then thats one sorted i suppose the one you have known for ages hates the one that you have kissed well i suppose you will have to choose between the both of them personaly from what ive heard from you i would choosse the one you have known for ages and say to the one you have kissed that you have known her for ages that you still wont to be her freind (the one you kissed) then hopfully she will be your freind then say to the one you have known for ages that you are just freinds with the other girl but if she dosent want you 2 be its your call 1 or the other hint:(choose the one you like the most)!!! (soz if it dnt make senseHealth Question & Answer
you want advice .?
ok well talk to them ,,, make things better !
dunno how to make things better .? dunno what to say .?
urgh help me out here !
i would start by apologising to both of them however many times you have done already .
ok that's the first thing to say to the first girl is let her no everything was a mistake and the kiss was a mistake , tell her it meant nothing ! say that she has every right to feel angry with you and as soon as you are looking for a relationship ,,, she will be the first girl you will ask ,,, that's if she want's to of course ..make her feel special and say i want to be with you , and it's you i want but i have so much going on at home at the moment
now what to say to the girl on the bus....be honest , that's the only thing you can do ,, tell her your not looking for a relationship at the moment because you have things going on at home and your so sorry , and you mean it ,, tell her if you could turn back time and change everything that has happened you would ,,,,, say that it's not her , it's you.
say what ever you need to make things right ......x
i hope i helped ...x :)Health Question & Answer