Did my ex have some kind of disorder?!
Question: Did my ex have some kind of disorder.?
When I was 15 I had this boyfriend who always threatened to commit suicide if I broke up with him. I now know how he controlled me using his threats.
He also would purposely get me to cry by calling me names and then kiss me because the crying made my lips feel hot to the touch.
He would pick out my clothes and tell me how to dress and how to talk to other people and then criticize me for dressing like a whore (even though he picked out the outfit) and then call me names
He would chew up food like crackers in his mouth and then force me to kiss him and then push it into my mouth and tell me to swallow.
I know as an adult how stupid I was to endure that crud for the sake of keeping him alive. I eventually stopped caring about him and with the help of his best friend left him and avoided further contact.
I know all that is gross and I was terribly stupid for staying with him...it doesn't matter now but I am curious on a psychological level what the heck was wrong with him.?
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He also would purposely get me to cry by calling me names and then kiss me because the crying made my lips feel hot to the touch.
He would pick out my clothes and tell me how to dress and how to talk to other people and then criticize me for dressing like a whore (even though he picked out the outfit) and then call me names
He would chew up food like crackers in his mouth and then force me to kiss him and then push it into my mouth and tell me to swallow.
I know as an adult how stupid I was to endure that crud for the sake of keeping him alive. I eventually stopped caring about him and with the help of his best friend left him and avoided further contact.
I know all that is gross and I was terribly stupid for staying with him...it doesn't matter now but I am curious on a psychological level what the heck was wrong with him.?
I know what was wrong with me ;-)Health Question & Answer
Answers:
A natural born sadist.?
Probably just a kid that found "dominating" turned him on and didn't have anyone to stop him from going overboard. You weren't mature enough and became the perfect victim for him.
Just another sick, twisted coward getting turned on by your suffering.
Be glad you have nothing to do with him anymore and don't worry
"what goes around, comes around". He will eventually get what is coming to him and he is not worth your attention.Health Question & Answer
Probably just a kid that found "dominating" turned him on and didn't have anyone to stop him from going overboard. You weren't mature enough and became the perfect victim for him.
Just another sick, twisted coward getting turned on by your suffering.
Be glad you have nothing to do with him anymore and don't worry
"what goes around, comes around". He will eventually get what is coming to him and he is not worth your attention.Health Question & Answer
Well, he was obviously a clingy control freak.
Congrats on moving on. Some people fail to move on, so you've got that going for you. Excellent!
Yeah, generally black mail isn't a good thing in a relationship.
My ex used emotional blackmail on me, but in a different way.
You just have to roll with the punches. Eventually things work out. They did for you. They did for me.
He's the past. Don't think about him too much.Health Question & Answer
Congrats on moving on. Some people fail to move on, so you've got that going for you. Excellent!
Yeah, generally black mail isn't a good thing in a relationship.
My ex used emotional blackmail on me, but in a different way.
You just have to roll with the punches. Eventually things work out. They did for you. They did for me.
He's the past. Don't think about him too much.Health Question & Answer
how old was he.?.?.?
he probaly only lived with his dad and his dad was a pimp and his dad didnt care how he treated women. this was the only thing that your boyfriend knew and as he grew up he did these things to you cuz the guy was a douche. im glad that you found someone else. o he was a douche. Health Question & Answer
he probaly only lived with his dad and his dad was a pimp and his dad didnt care how he treated women. this was the only thing that your boyfriend knew and as he grew up he did these things to you cuz the guy was a douche. im glad that you found someone else. o he was a douche. Health Question & Answer
i don't think its anything psychologically wrong, buut.. that's abuse. sometimes there is an underlying problem, but i am not a psychologist, and cannot analyze him for you.Health Question & Answer
well i don't think he had a disorder but boy was he...weird. haha.
im sorry about that. but dont worry about it anymore. its over. and if you meet anyone like that again. get away before your in to deep.Health Question & Answer
im sorry about that. but dont worry about it anymore. its over. and if you meet anyone like that again. get away before your in to deep.Health Question & Answer
Honestly he doesn't sound really stable, but it's hard to make a diagnoses without actually meeting the person. But at least now you realize he wasn't worth it! Health Question & Answer
he probably had a problem for his dad or mom.? because if his dad treated him or his mother that way that the only way he know how to respond Health Question & Answer
ok .. the answer is yes .. and he is a PHYCO!!!!!! .. so yeah just forget about it before you start holding something against him .. kk hoped i helped ..Health Question & Answer
you saw the signs and why ask about an ex when he is already a past.Health Question & Answer