I have trouble letting go.?!
Question: I have trouble letting go..?
sigh,, im a pretty stubborn person and have trouble trusting. idk what to do... i cant get this guy out of my head that i had an amazing connection w briefly 2yrs and a half ago. i know it sounds irrational but to this day i still think he feels the same. (but rationally i know it's my ego). he does have a gf (myspace). but idk it effects my everyday life, how do i mentally break away from him. i havent talk to him nor seen him in person for over 2 yrs and i still think that magically somehow we're going to run into each other. someone knock some sense into me. not insults but real insight. thank you v much.Health Question & Answer
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Maybe you need to think if you really want to be with him or it is just a feeling of having an unfinished business (in this case relationship). When we don't finish something the way that it feels complete (even if the result is negative) our brain creates a charged psychological system that drives us nervous and makes us feel unsettled. So in simple words - sounds like you just need closure. How you can get it, you are the only one to decide.Health Question & Answer
well its ok to think about them every now and then but for it to effect you. it shouldn'tif you ddon'talready get another boyfriend and try to make it work .Health Question & Answer
same issue but I have known the person for a whole decade now, I want to know what you find out, so I'll check back in about 5 days!Health Question & Answer
Sounds like you need a physchological analyzation
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you could have an obsessive disorder. Wouldn't hurt to check with a doctor. =)Health Question & Answer
ok i dont want o have every one knowing my personal life so email me at butterfly_3283@yahoo.com please.? i have a similar problem..or HADHealth Question & Answer
You ever tried to accept that he actually left in your life. I mean, totally accept from your inside self to out.
Or in the other way, your previous relationship with him ended in uncommunicative way with each other and not trusting someone you used to like will actually hunt you especially if that person you used to go out with trusted and liked you but you were too stubborn to do it back to him. Sounds like a karma.
I used to have a relationship that is full of trust and young love and we lasted 4 years. Few months i was tripping on my own foot and struggling with life but but when you accept that he/she is gone that it was just a part of life experience, it will actually change for the better. Maybe the pain would still be in there however though, the more you accept that old relationship inside you /or talk to him about what you really did was wrong and stubborn eventhough you dont want him back - would definitely help - in other words surrender.
So anyways, all these are thought processes and as i said when acceptance is your friend, it will flip things around for the better.
So next time you meet someone, you either be stubborn or not, there's always a consequences.....
Take care of yourself and Good luck.
- KRHealth Question & Answer
Or in the other way, your previous relationship with him ended in uncommunicative way with each other and not trusting someone you used to like will actually hunt you especially if that person you used to go out with trusted and liked you but you were too stubborn to do it back to him. Sounds like a karma.
I used to have a relationship that is full of trust and young love and we lasted 4 years. Few months i was tripping on my own foot and struggling with life but but when you accept that he/she is gone that it was just a part of life experience, it will actually change for the better. Maybe the pain would still be in there however though, the more you accept that old relationship inside you /or talk to him about what you really did was wrong and stubborn eventhough you dont want him back - would definitely help - in other words surrender.
So anyways, all these are thought processes and as i said when acceptance is your friend, it will flip things around for the better.
So next time you meet someone, you either be stubborn or not, there's always a consequences.....
Take care of yourself and Good luck.
- KRHealth Question & Answer