How can i be known as cool instead of weird?[answer quickly]?!
Question: How can i be known as cool instead of weird.?[answer quickly].?
at school im called weird and i wanna be cool,popular,known. but at school i come home angrier than wen i went because im called weird.can you plz help me with my anger problems and tell me how to be cool instead of weird dorky and most of all idioticHealth Question & Answer
Answers:
short answer: Love yourself as you are!! Attitude, act cool, believe you are cool and you ARE cool, make them believe it and hold your head high!!! Be happy and smile, because you are the best!! trust me.
long version:
I have often thought about why some kids are popular while others are not, or called weird. I am already past college. I was called "weird" and fat (I was not even fat) . Very funny, since I was one of the few from this town to go on to become an actress/model in Los Angeles! no lie, this is truth.
The secret is.... ATTITUDE! Kids want to follow whomever they think is cool, you need to act like you KNOW you are awsome, it is all about loving yourself! No other secret. I was called many names, and that made me feel bad about myself- but now I look at my old yearbook and pictures and see I was obviously prettier than almost EVERY girl by far, I am not conceited, just a fact so I cannot believe I fell for the lies they told me!!!!! I am unique and so are you!! yeahhh. BUT I was shy and had some issues at home. So they called me names, such as "weird" and worse! Especailly if they find out it bothers you.
They were jealous or just plain nuts 'cause I was a star compared to them-geez! I have since been on TV and in plays and won a pageant at age 17. Imagine, I was called "ugly", "fat" and "weird"- weird was the best of the names I got called. Chewed up gum was even thrown in my long, blonde hair in grade school...why.? never knew then, in fact I cried then hit the culprit (not saying you should though!) ...it is now obvious-jealous girl did it! I...normal is boring. Be a leader not a follower. All of us are weird to someone right.?
Kids smell fear-lol Be brave and walk with your head held up high!
One day soon you will see what I (as a grown up now) have seen, that the so called "weird" kids go far, and the cool ones do not, and I do not know why.
If they call you "weird.? say "thanks, I like to be different" or "weird.?no way I rock!" or just "whatever, I think you are boring, so what.? " and then walk away head held so high.
soon things will change. Join activities or sports to be energetic and feel good ....or just be YOU.
Cool is being confident! Health Question & Answer
long version:
I have often thought about why some kids are popular while others are not, or called weird. I am already past college. I was called "weird" and fat (I was not even fat) . Very funny, since I was one of the few from this town to go on to become an actress/model in Los Angeles! no lie, this is truth.
The secret is.... ATTITUDE! Kids want to follow whomever they think is cool, you need to act like you KNOW you are awsome, it is all about loving yourself! No other secret. I was called many names, and that made me feel bad about myself- but now I look at my old yearbook and pictures and see I was obviously prettier than almost EVERY girl by far, I am not conceited, just a fact so I cannot believe I fell for the lies they told me!!!!! I am unique and so are you!! yeahhh. BUT I was shy and had some issues at home. So they called me names, such as "weird" and worse! Especailly if they find out it bothers you.
They were jealous or just plain nuts 'cause I was a star compared to them-geez! I have since been on TV and in plays and won a pageant at age 17. Imagine, I was called "ugly", "fat" and "weird"- weird was the best of the names I got called. Chewed up gum was even thrown in my long, blonde hair in grade school...why.? never knew then, in fact I cried then hit the culprit (not saying you should though!) ...it is now obvious-jealous girl did it! I...normal is boring. Be a leader not a follower. All of us are weird to someone right.?
Kids smell fear-lol Be brave and walk with your head held up high!
One day soon you will see what I (as a grown up now) have seen, that the so called "weird" kids go far, and the cool ones do not, and I do not know why.
If they call you "weird.? say "thanks, I like to be different" or "weird.?no way I rock!" or just "whatever, I think you are boring, so what.? " and then walk away head held so high.
soon things will change. Join activities or sports to be energetic and feel good ....or just be YOU.
Cool is being confident! Health Question & Answer
Show them the middle finger and say "Go fck yourself!" be yourself and if people are not happy, well then they can just suck it up! Or transfer to a different school if people are being very mean like calling you names, hitting you, stuff like that... you can also tell the police, bullying is against the law you know. Dont give up, people like these must be punished! It can change your life in a terrible way in the future! I know because of experiences, understandings and observations. if you dont find help soon....and you'll end up like me...trust me, you dont wanna be like me :PHealth Question & Answer
"Weird" is the coolest form of being cool. IF anyone calls you weird - smile and thank them for the complement - that will drive them crazy.
also the word weird has an interesting history - it comes from old English. It referred to women that had strange (supernatural) powers over men.
So don't worry. The people that are bugging you see something special in you and the resent that (jealousy).Health Question & Answer
also the word weird has an interesting history - it comes from old English. It referred to women that had strange (supernatural) powers over men.
So don't worry. The people that are bugging you see something special in you and the resent that (jealousy).Health Question & Answer
Own your so-called weirdness and you will be cool. The way to deal with the anger is to not take other people's comments personally; they have to be pretty lame and bored to be calling you weird, it's a reflection of them and not you.
EDIT: After reading that these kids actually go home and make fun of you, it's become blaringly obvious that they have no lives. Don't listen to them!Health Question & Answer
EDIT: After reading that these kids actually go home and make fun of you, it's become blaringly obvious that they have no lives. Don't listen to them!Health Question & Answer
you will never be cool until you build up your self-confidence. dont worry about what others think or say be yourself, high school is only four years then you have the rest of your life and you wont ever have to look back.Health Question & Answer
stop trying to be something and just be whatever you are, you will soon find out that all of that stuff means nothing and when your older you will be happy to know you were the wierd dorky one. Health Question & Answer
It will never matter who is cool and who isn't in high school, when you're out in the real world. Don't try to be someone else be yourself.Health Question & Answer
Don't follow anybody. Be your own person and people will like you for who you are.Health Question & Answer
Don't be popular. They suck. Be yourself. Being weird is way better than being an asshole.Health Question & Answer
weird IS cool.... don't let them brainwash you. :)
You'll understand laterHealth Question & Answer
You'll understand laterHealth Question & Answer