I hate my life! Can someone help?!


Question: I hate my life! Can someone help.?
Okay, I hate my life so much. I literally want to get a knife and just cut myself. I have an extremely poor family, my dad moved to Mexico because he is wanted by the police. My sister moved out because she hates my mom, I am hated by alot of kids at school. My life really sucks. I just want to kill myself Or what should I do. I am not getting therapy or any of that stuff.Health Question & Answer


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well let me put the things u just said in a posistive way!
u must not be poor b/c u can afford internet, unless ur using someone elses of course! nd if thats the case think about the homeless and how they dont have a home! appreciate wat u got! um ur dada moving away im pretty sure u dont want him in jail! ur sis well think about it if she was still there things wouldve just gotten worse and they both would probly argue everyday so that would be annoying. nd the kids at school well maybe u could show them tthat ur not a bad person. but who really cares if kids dont like u! its gunna happen everywere u move TRUST ME!
but u just gotta ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS think POSITIVE!
:D hope i helpedHealth Question & Answer

Believe it or not this is a phase almost every teenager goes through. Honestly. I have had many thoughts of killing/hurting myself also. I tried running away... but what does that say for your character. When things get rough you hide from them... you will learn as you go through life... what does not kill you, can only make you stronger. Use your pain to motivate you to do better. Trust me I was 13, i moved away from all my friends in alaska. I had only one friend. I began to look for comfort in boys which ended to be a bad choice, as for most boys don't care about your problems. My dad was in the military and never home, and my mom was addicted to medications. My sister was a pro women's wrestler as well as my brother. I was nothing to anyone. as time went on my life fell apart. I was using drugs, sleeping around and ditching school. My mom committed suicide last year, i was 16... less than a month later i found out that my father was being shipped out to war. I was still in high school, i had to work my butt of to graduate early and find a job, meanwhile dealing with the pain of lossing a mother and father. I know its hard to deal with pain, but its Gods way of testing you. Think about your future, I know someday you want to walk down the isle and fall in-love, even have your first kid. Personally i am incredibly happy i never pulled the trigger, I hope someday you will be too.
-HaileyHealth Question & Answer

Get a journal and write down everything you are feeling. If your scared about others finding it and reading it write really sloppy to were it is amost impossible for anyone to read but yourself.
Know your not alone, esspcially with this economic crisis, things are going all haywire and I know you must be in alot of pain but killing yourself isn't the answer, it's the easy, selfish way out. You can do this, just find the strangth from with in. Health Question & Answer

Do not pick up a religion, it will probably make things worse. I would say ask your mom if you could go a new school and try making friends there. If you can try to call your sister and talk to her or someone you care about. Don't cut yourself or stab yourself, because after wards you will feel stupid for doing it. Two of my friends cut themselves before and now they talk about how stupid they were and how they wish they didn't do it.Health Question & Answer

First, notice that you are the only one in the world who feels like you. Others have the same experience, but you are a unique and special individual, and you are here to find happiness. The fact that you want to feel good and be happy means that it exists for you. So start looking for it, and don't assume you are stuck in any situation. You are never, never stuck. Remember that, and start to live from that point.Health Question & Answer

honey, i have been there many times. dont do anything silly. it sounds awful, but it could be much worse........you could have some serious illness or amputated leg..........be glad you are healthy.
the rest will start changing..........get a job on side (if you are old enough) to help the family or just for your own use, study hard, start learning other languages to make sure you will get a great job one day. dont give up, you are at the beginning of your life, dont waste it. find good friends, even if it was someone on internet you could share your problems with. that would be great.
take careHealth Question & Answer

First of all, please please please please please please dont kill or even harm yourself! your life is valuble, i've never seen you, and i know that it is:)

Second, think on the postivie side. The only reason you think ur life sucks is becuase ur looking at negative aspects. Think about it this way; take a rapper like lil Wayne that has money, fame and all that good stuff. but to go with all that, he has just as much haters as fans, hes not the best looking person like most other celbritrites, hes adopted, as in his real parent left him. But instead of Wayne to think about all the **** he has in his life, he looks at his postives aspects. If he looked at all the negative things, he would think the same as u, that his life sucks, which obviously it doesnt.

So what im saying is, u need to remind urself of what is good. Dnttell me there isnt anything good, because there is. If you need anyone to talk to, go to my profile, and email me :)

I wish you the best <3Health Question & Answer

Come on!!!! Everyone born into this crazy world deserves to live a long happy life. Get your mom or friend to help cheer you up!!!!!! Or I a complete and total stranger can tell you this: Life is Short. Learn it. Live it. Love it." Your dad messed up and that is not your fault. To help your famiy get money; get a job within walking distance of your home. Whatever you do:don't kill yourself. But, follow your heart and do whatever it wants you to do. Honesly, I am very hopeful to get best answer!!!!Health Question & Answer

It does sound difficult Juan.

If it helps at all, school won't last forever, then you'll be free to do as you please. Try to get some time to yourself and if you can, pursue an interest that's important to you.
The fact that you're having to go through a tougher time than many means that you'll come out stronger and better able to cope than many others.
What can you learn from others' mistakes.?

Stick with it and plan a beautiful future for yourself because you'll deserve it!Health Question & Answer

well get therapy.
omg its people like you that really bug me.
you think your the only poor person on this planet.? or the only one with problems. cause believe me mine our so much worse than yours yet i do not complain because i know theres people out there who have it worse than me. one of my friends at my school has cigarettes burnt onto her skin my her own father. yet she doesnt complain or want to kill herself. we're smarter than that.
hows that for a life that really sucks.?
get over it. please.Health Question & Answer

well there has to be something good about your life
some friends at least
whenever you feel that way, just think of a good time you remember

dude that really sucks, and i used to feel that way
but, going to some sort of psychiatrist or something can really help
some depression meds maybe

they work, its not a load of crapHealth Question & Answer

Don't kill yourself. I had the same experience like you it's shocking. Just have a positive attitude and be independant. If it's comfortable for you, try talking to your mom about it. You just have to suck it in or do something about it(not kill yourself) and it will pass just like that...Health Question & Answer

First thing is don't be afraid to ask for help. Second is that you contact a staff member at school that you trust. Third, once help is provided, make sure you are true to yourself, and taking advantage of the help. It's a tough road but it will get better. You need to focus on you, not your family, to get better. Health Question & Answer

your not gonna do anythin stupid cause you would have done it by now your sis will come back once she finds out how hard it is by herself and who cares wat people think of you at school all you need is 1 good friend try pickin some1 you've known for a while and not to be mean but how can you afford a computer if you poorHealth Question & Answer

hey man lifes a *****, but its the only one u got. if u end this one, theres no waking up tomorrow and saying hey lets try this route.
things really do sound tough for u right now, but they can get better. just get good grades, they're ur ticket out of everything. as far as not being liked, not everyone has to like u. just try to be a nice guy and find a small group that will be there for you, that all u need.
smile :)Health Question & Answer

oh no...cling on with your mother because she is the only precious one you have...live for your mother and not for the sake of everyone hating you..i feel sorry for you..i have a lousy live too, but better than yours actually..so dont give up and live on for your mother..gOod LuCk!Health Question & Answer

Don't do that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Seems you should out of your house and do something productive preferably in a socially supportive environment. Health Question & Answer

my life is like that but not a lot.i feel real sorry for you and i don't think you should kill yourself.a lot of peolpe go threw that but dont kill there self.don't try to solve your problems by killing yourselfHealth Question & Answer

all i can say is don't say that you don't mean it. try talking to god and pray every night i promise everything will get better. just keep your head held high. Health Question & Answer

that is a tough situation i have a tough life not that bad talk to ur mom tell her you r depressed and i would get therapy if possible
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read the bible. learn about their problems. trust me all of the people in the bible had problems and god helped them all. he even healed them. Health Question & Answer

maybe look at the posotive side and tell everyone to back off maybe run away or get adotped by a new family BE A HOBOS HOBOS ROCK WHOS WITH ME Health Question & Answer

i hate my life too. i just want it to end. theres just no reason whatsoever. life is ******* pointless.
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You need to talk to a professional. Please call 1-800-784-2433 people there will be able to direct you to help in your area. DON"T WAIT CALL NOW! I wish you the best.Health Question & Answer

go to therapy.

answer mineHealth Question & Answer

go to therapy. please don't kill yourself. Health Question & Answer

dude don't do eny thing stupid that u will regret later just wait things will get Better make new friendsHealth Question & Answer



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