Does anyone at times feel that they are really stupid because they struggle at something?!


Question: Does anyone at times feel that they are really stupid because they struggle at something.?
But then feel like they can do anything when they solve a problem.? It is hindering my confidence because I feel more stupid at times than I actually am in general, which is not at all.Health Question & Answer


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I think we all go through phases like this when something stops us in our tracks and we can't figure it out. Give yourself a break and remember all the times you have solved problems and try to think creatively to solve the problem that is bothering you now. Take a break from the problem, take a walk, do something else for a while. Sometimes, just a fresh perspective will make the answer come easier. Good luck.Health Question & Answer

Don't let something you have done or cannot do shatter your confidence. We all have to do something for the 1st time. Even at my ripe age i'm still learning to do tasks that my younger peers sail through but I've learnt not to let it bother me. I can assure you that whatever mistakes you make, you are not the 1st person to make it and you definitely will not be the last. In fact give yourself a pat on the back for at least having an attempt. Good on you, you are not stupid, just a normal person.Health Question & Answer

Its easy at any time of failure to think like this and negativity breeds negativity ie negative thoughts can snowball on you if you dont keep them in check, from the way you word your question I'm sure anything that stops you is purely a case of practice for more skill or learning to educate yourself more on something, if you are not positive about the undertaking of anything it will make the task harder. just chill and try again.Health Question & Answer

Yeah, I think that's quite a common thing. I struggled for a bit because of drugs problems and it really put me back at square one. I remember struggling at work and trying so hard and being laughed at. But things are loads better now and it's all a good life lesson. Don't worry, just have faith in yourself and know that you're capable. Good luck.Health Question & Answer

I was mentally abused and now believe that i am retarded although i have a normal IQ. I actually get so nervous that i act slowHealth Question & Answer

yeah all the time. that's normal.Health Question & Answer

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