I need help, im so obsessed with my hatrid for one person?!
Question: I need help, im so obsessed with my hatrid for one person.?
my old best friend (no names), well we were so freaking close people thought we were secretly dating, and then i mean he was using me, i gave him everything, i paid for his membership on xbox for 3 mouths, got him a game, and when he broke his controller by getting pissed at CoD4 i let him have mine for a year, only got it bk cos i insisted! he even broke mine once but we fixed it. and all i got bk was 3 times he said he was gonna kill himself and i believed him all 3 times, he him being mad at me for not being a gd friend when i stuck up for him all the time, never said anything bad to him, i mean he made up a joke about me and my sister going out cos i said i love her! and had a go at me because i asked him to stop 3 times, and i said sorry!
anywho i had enough big fight know he H8s me and keeps talking behind my back and a lil part of me wants things to go bk to normal and most of me hates to kill him, i mean i lost my temper and punched my bed other day just because i sore his pic, i am obsessed! and everything reminds me of him, i am so obsessed! how can i stop this! please helpHealth Question & Answer
anywho i had enough big fight know he H8s me and keeps talking behind my back and a lil part of me wants things to go bk to normal and most of me hates to kill him, i mean i lost my temper and punched my bed other day just because i sore his pic, i am obsessed! and everything reminds me of him, i am so obsessed! how can i stop this! please helpHealth Question & Answer
Answers:
You
1. have feelings
2. express your opinions and
3. take actions.
I'd say you're a lot better off psychologically than a lot of people who get stuck because they stop moving forward. You're one of the healthy ones and we should all learn from -you-.
My guess is that you're in great shape. Just keep on doin' what you're doin' and keep being honest. Situations change and sometimes when something was good in the past, we cling to it because we don't want to lose it, we don't want to give it up.
The best way is to have faith. Keep on marching confidently forward. Forget about your friend for a day or two, and turn to something else, and you just might find that when you and he next bump into one another, the friendship is new, deeper, and better than ever.
Life is like a mouse dancing on an old record spinning on a record player. You don't have to reach back. Just keep dancing and everything that was old will come back around again eventually and smack you in the face.
So keep facing forward!Health Question & Answer
1. have feelings
2. express your opinions and
3. take actions.
I'd say you're a lot better off psychologically than a lot of people who get stuck because they stop moving forward. You're one of the healthy ones and we should all learn from -you-.
My guess is that you're in great shape. Just keep on doin' what you're doin' and keep being honest. Situations change and sometimes when something was good in the past, we cling to it because we don't want to lose it, we don't want to give it up.
The best way is to have faith. Keep on marching confidently forward. Forget about your friend for a day or two, and turn to something else, and you just might find that when you and he next bump into one another, the friendship is new, deeper, and better than ever.
Life is like a mouse dancing on an old record spinning on a record player. You don't have to reach back. Just keep dancing and everything that was old will come back around again eventually and smack you in the face.
So keep facing forward!Health Question & Answer