Major Help? How can i get out of not killing myslef?!


Question: Major Help.? How can i get out of not killing myslef.?
sooo... my very good friend, alissa decides to listen to some girl saying that im sayng a bunch of stuff about her. Another girl told her soething i said, but mixed up the words COMPLETLY.Alissa takes a while to forgive, and she my best friend. when i tried talking to her she started to cry and she left. Shes also my ride to and from school! i have no other way of getting to school. and i need her to drive me... but she wont if she dosnt forgive me.

any suggestion on helping me get through this without killing myself.?(not litteraly)Health Question & Answer


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I think if she wont listen write her a note. It must have been really hurtful for her to feel that way, but if you don't tell her what REALLY happened she will never know. Just write her a note and say that you rather say it to her face but your afraid she wont hear you out. Tell her her friendship means a lot to you and you would hate to loose it over some confusion. If she is a good friend she will read it--tell her that whenever she is ready to talk you will be there to explain everything--and make sure you tell her your sorry, because even though it wasnt the FULL truth--you still said something about her. Hope that helps. Health Question & Answer

Wow, first of all, start finding other sources of transportation! Now that you know how vulnerable your friend is to gossip, better cover your bases (since you can't get out of the line of fire...). Don't fret over a damaged relationship, you haven't done a thing wrong so don't you dare take this to yourself as if you have to fix the problem. Your friend has the problem. You just need to learn how to take care of your needs (establish some backup transportation) first, then consider how to best help your friend.
Maybe she just needs some space from you so she can grow up some more.
Best wishes.Health Question & Answer

Write her a letter to tell her your sorryHealth Question & Answer

if it's not literaly, then you don't need to make it seem that way..
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wow . this was a waste of time
& u even had the nerve to say Major
wowHealth Question & Answer



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