Please help - Im stuck in a rut.?!
Question: Please help - Im stuck in a rut..?
I just feel like I have nothing to say for myself. I dont work or go to school I just depend on my dad. I dont have girlfriends anymore cause they all betrayed me in one way or another. All I have left is my now ex boyfriend who calls when he feels like it. I messed our 5 yr relationship up by going to italy.
Now I have no one but my parents and a little money.
I live in Michigan and want to move badly and start and new life & work somewhere.
I could get a degree online.
Where should I go, What should I do & How can I make new friends when Im so shy.?Health Question & Answer
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hi isabella,u have a case of the poor meees.u have forgotten one thing u have yourself.stop depending on others to make u feel good that never works,running away wont fix it either u have the power to turn this thing around from right were your at! one way that works for me is to try to help someone every day,FIND A WAY!!! since it sounds like u have some time volunteer some place maybe a homeless shelter hospital maybe an elderly person u know, helping others getting positive WILL get u noticed youll be surprised how good you feel and i promise good things will start to happenHealth Question & Answer
Start by doing one thing different every day. Even if it is only for 10 min for the whole day. Go for a walk, write, read, empower yourself, grow your mind. If you do well with 10 min move to 20 min a day etc...
You don't have to make major life decisions in a time when you are feeling so bad. Take small steps and they will grow into big ones. I wish you the best!Health Question & Answer
You don't have to make major life decisions in a time when you are feeling so bad. Take small steps and they will grow into big ones. I wish you the best!Health Question & Answer
Look at Dr Phil's website in the "life laws" area and try to read "Life Strategies." If I had to guess there might be things going on that you aren't admitting or you're acting in some way to cause this to happen. That's great that you're motivated. Make a plan and go for it. Anything you want you can make happen.
You may have to change your values and behavior to do it. Good luck!Health Question & Answer
You may have to change your values and behavior to do it. Good luck!Health Question & Answer
Oh, you should definately consider moving and starting a new life.
I think it will be refreshing, get a job, it will consume your time and you'll be meeting new people.
Forget the girls who betrayed you.Health Question & Answer
I think it will be refreshing, get a job, it will consume your time and you'll be meeting new people.
Forget the girls who betrayed you.Health Question & Answer