I feel so guilty. someone please help! ?!


Question: I feel so guilty. someone please help! .?
so yesterday was homecoming night. And i really, truly didn't feel like going. I know this sounds stupid, but I have a really hard time saying no to people... so i went with this guy i just met this fall year. i think i messed it up for him big time. so we went to a restraurant to eat and he was so happy.. then we went to school and was waiting in line. I bullshitted that my brother was in the emergencys with an ashtma attack and it's so not true... I had my friend pick me up. I really didn't want to stay. I left before the dance even started i feel like such a bad person and i usually don't lie but i felt so queezy around so many people and i had to work in the morning so i was all tired out and didn't even have time to get ready.. i was all self conscious and nervous. he kept asking me what was wrong the whole time and last night he kept calling to see it my "sick" brother was alright. I don't know what to do or think. Any advise.?.?.? please help.Health Question & Answer


Answers:
you should feel guilty how could lie to someone.

no serious he is probably fine or maybe u could come clean and tell him the truth.that will stop making u feel guilty. but its all up to u.Health Question & Answer

You need to learn to say no since this time saying no would have been much kinder than what you did. The guy spent money and was looking forward to a great evening with you and now you're just leaving him to wonder what happened. Tell him the truth. Make sure you are sincere and you should offer to repay him for the money he lost.Health Question & Answer

tell him the Truth you don't like to be around peopleHealth Question & Answer



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