Should i see a therapist?!
Question: Should i see a therapist.?
my life is pretty...messed up. i was born into a "perfect" life. my parents are filthy rich. we have an indoor swimming pool in our house! people that first meet me ask me where my mom is, because they think she is my sister. it gets really really annoying when my mom comes to my school meetings, in the shortest skirt she could possibly squeeze her butt into. its so embarresing. i wish she would be a normal mom. shes like a teenager that happens to be legal age. she never grew up. and my dad is nevr at home he is always in Las Vegas for buisness. When my friends come over they always hang out with my mom, because my mom tells them when they become legal age, what clubs to go to and what clubs are the best. ive rebelled. ive had oral sex with my boyfriend, i smoke sometimes, and i drink. i think i need help. any advice.
heres a pic of my mom and me.
im on the left shes on the right. it looks like we are close in the pic. but we arnt. =[
http://i147.photobucket.com/albums/r295/...
thank you -Lorelei FanaseaHealth Question & Answer
heres a pic of my mom and me.
im on the left shes on the right. it looks like we are close in the pic. but we arnt. =[
http://i147.photobucket.com/albums/r295/...
thank you -Lorelei FanaseaHealth Question & Answer
Answers:
i think you should 1st try to talk to you mom and maybe dad about it. also try talking to your friends and telling them about it... they might be able to help.
If it doesnt work i guess you could go see a Therapist... maybe family counceling or something.
your really pretty and so is your mom. i see what you mean when you say ppl think shes your sister... yall look so much alike. and she does look really young. but just be happy and proud to "show off" that your mom is actually a lot older than people think... that just means shes taken care of herself. or just find the humor in it when people ask if shes your sister.
people thought my mom was actually my older sister for a while, its not that bad.Health Question & Answer
If it doesnt work i guess you could go see a Therapist... maybe family counceling or something.
your really pretty and so is your mom. i see what you mean when you say ppl think shes your sister... yall look so much alike. and she does look really young. but just be happy and proud to "show off" that your mom is actually a lot older than people think... that just means shes taken care of herself. or just find the humor in it when people ask if shes your sister.
people thought my mom was actually my older sister for a while, its not that bad.Health Question & Answer
I think therapy can be a safe place to process things that we struggle with. To get that you need two things a therapist you trust and the willingness to open yourself up.
It sounds like your roles are confused with your parents and it would be a good thing to process and work out before it gets all mixed up. If you look at therapy as a place you can grow and find out new things about your self I say go for it. I wish you the best!Health Question & Answer
It sounds like your roles are confused with your parents and it would be a good thing to process and work out before it gets all mixed up. If you look at therapy as a place you can grow and find out new things about your self I say go for it. I wish you the best!Health Question & Answer
It would be good to talk to a therapist. If your mom doesn't go for the idea, tell her that all the popular kids have therapists. She seems like the type (from what you've said) that likes to keep up with the Jones.Health Question & Answer
Well most kids your age have tried those things. When you don't feel its right then just stop doing it. Hang out with different people who have the same morals as you! You are blessed to have all you have. Please realize that..Health Question & Answer
i dont think you should see a theripist about that i go to therapy because i suffer from anxiety and depression .....a pretty girl like u should have a better life and not have sex yet even though i lost my virginity at age 12Health Question & Answer
I think your jealous of your mum you like her want to be centre of attention all the time. Health Question & Answer
Try getting a different hat, I`m sure that's at the root of your problem.Health Question & Answer
wow....i dont think you should see a thereapist either...cuz somtimes it doesnt work trust me ive done worse and seeing someone only made me feel crazy...like they made me feel like a lunatic...when all i wanted was attention from my mom...honestly the way i look at it is soon im going to get older and not have to live under her rules and under all this stress my mom puts me under ...soo i can disconect...i dont want to be close to my mom when i get older....at all.....and if you really feel that bad than you should think of ways to get you out the house that doesnt hurt urself...in any type away...just get away ....btw im 14Health Question & Answer
Most people could benefit from therapy. What's better than a supportive friend who clarifies things for you, supports you, and never asks you to listen to their problems in return.? If you have the money, I'd say go for it.
Debbie
P.S. Both you and your mom are gorgeous. Do you do modeling.?
P.S.S. Everyone thinks my mom is my sister too. Flattering to her, but annoying to me.
Oh, and one more thing. I noticed you put your full name on the board. You might want to go back and take out your last name or use a fake name altogether. You don't know who's reading these boards and some people are not to be trusted.Health Question & Answer
Debbie
P.S. Both you and your mom are gorgeous. Do you do modeling.?
P.S.S. Everyone thinks my mom is my sister too. Flattering to her, but annoying to me.
Oh, and one more thing. I noticed you put your full name on the board. You might want to go back and take out your last name or use a fake name altogether. You don't know who's reading these boards and some people are not to be trusted.Health Question & Answer