I Cant Take It Anymore !!!!?!
Question: I Cant Take It Anymore !!!!.?
I feel so suffocated in my house, i'm about to go insane. I cant stand my mom and dad. I hate my life right now. When I just think about the conditions i'm living in right now, I feel like breaking everything in sight. I'm trying to not break down and cry right now, but if I wanted to I wouldnt be hard. I have no one to talk to right now. What can I do to keep my mind off things.?
THANKS Health Question & Answer
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This was me two years ago, except I did break everything. I got taken away from my home for a few months by youth protection and it was probably the best thing that could of happened, I needed to get away for a while from my family, obviously I put up a front that I didn't want to go in court but honestly I did, and I'm glad I did. I don't recommend you going into the care of youth protection (if you're under 18) but can you stay with a family or a Friend. If you don't want to tell them why you're there, just say 'I miss talking with you, can I stay over a bit so we can catch up'
anyways if you want to talk to a complete stranger email me. :D
edit: Things you can do. I vented by writing, I always loved writing. And I play guitar and piano and they ended up being some amazing lyrics. Of course no one will ever hear them but they're cute. Do something you like, next year you'll look back at it and be like yay.Health Question & Answer
anyways if you want to talk to a complete stranger email me. :D
edit: Things you can do. I vented by writing, I always loved writing. And I play guitar and piano and they ended up being some amazing lyrics. Of course no one will ever hear them but they're cute. Do something you like, next year you'll look back at it and be like yay.Health Question & Answer
i know how you feel, i find it so difficult at my dads house, the place is a mess, he has a temper like a flipping firework and hes totally unreasonable, im fed up of taking his crap my whole life and for 12 years of it i actually believed that it was my fault . . . some times i feel so emotional and sometimes it just feels empty . . . but luckily my parents are split up and i spend most of the time at my mums . . it isn't perfect there, i argue with her alot and i have problems with school so it seems like all 3 bits that make up my life are hell
the only thing is that when you go through suck deep depression after a while of questioning what life is, what death is and who you are . . . it can sort your head out straight . . . eventually you will come to terms with stuff
my advise is if you have a passion for something . . . like music or dancing or drawing or poetry, boxing . . . anything take hold of it because when you have nothing else its gives you something to hold onto . . i don't know where id be now without music . . .Health Question & Answer
the only thing is that when you go through suck deep depression after a while of questioning what life is, what death is and who you are . . . it can sort your head out straight . . . eventually you will come to terms with stuff
my advise is if you have a passion for something . . . like music or dancing or drawing or poetry, boxing . . . anything take hold of it because when you have nothing else its gives you something to hold onto . . i don't know where id be now without music . . .Health Question & Answer
Professional counselling will help for long term adjustment. Short term do some sort of physical activity to take your mind off your worries. I used to go cycling for long periods.
Its hard I know as I went through the same sort of thing after coming back from Vietnam. I thought I was all alone but your not. There are a lot of people out there who can help you. Start with your local Doctor who should be able to point you in the right direction.Health Question & Answer
Its hard I know as I went through the same sort of thing after coming back from Vietnam. I thought I was all alone but your not. There are a lot of people out there who can help you. Start with your local Doctor who should be able to point you in the right direction.Health Question & Answer
The best I can suggest is a hobby or an extracurricular at school. It'll definitely give you a feeling of purpose and accomplishment and provide a healthy outlet to your emotions. You'll also be able to make new friends, feel better about yourself, and get out of that house :P
Good luck :)Health Question & Answer
Good luck :)Health Question & Answer
draw, listent o music, or go take a walk. i know exactly how you feel, if you have any friends (i dont have much so its hard for me) go be with them, once a week at least to get out of the house...or if you cant go take a walk or something. it helps a lot to just get away...Health Question & Answer
Or you can save money and run away and start your career on your own by yourself in a new city/country where nobody knows you. Get a first job as a waitress (this is a lot of money, if you're in the US), while looking for a dream job.Health Question & Answer
think positive.. spent time with your best buddy whom you can trust... keep yourself busy by doing some interesting things... i know that you're not too close to your parents but talking to them about some personal thing can change some things that bugging you.. tell them what you feel inside but in a respectful way.. and lastly.. don't forget to pray.. promise, it will help you a lot....Health Question & Answer
Typically, that's just a passing phase of depression. It may happen to just everyone. But, if you have this feeling for a long time, say more that a month, you'd better have a consultation with a psychiatrist.Health Question & Answer
I go for a walk when I feel crap about life. I've got a councilor and she's really good, I normally talk to her when I feel crappy.. Health Question & Answer
This is what good friends are for. Gather up some chums...head into town and have a night out. Health Question & Answer
go to the gym or something
it gets out frustration :)Health Question & Answer
it gets out frustration :)Health Question & Answer
Usually when we can't stand our parents its because they want us to do the right thing/ or our parents have som destructive habits/or you may feel u r ready for the real world. My child is 9 and since age 7 he's been bugging me about graduating from school--"I just want to see what I can do!" not joking around; he feels his classmates are soooo beneath him--just learned his IQ is 140! so, u may be some very intelligent person, highly ambitious or a very rebellious person...either way you got to channel your frustration into something positive. My son started his on business before he entered the second grade--so if he can make his presence known so can U! There are many avenues out there--use the internet to research things that are interesting to you and here it comes, prayer or quiet time--visualize how u want ur homelife to be..write down all the things that are bothering u and come up with solutions and pray for mental peace. I don't mean to write a book--but, at my age: I own a house-am a mother, but my PARENTS still get on my NERVES...my parents allowed my older siblings to just DOMINATE them...one sibling has already gotten them to sign over their home to her...two siblings are drug dependent JERKS, they live there rent free, bring "women"in once my parents are in bed(according to my parent's NEIGHBORS)...I use to bring all this crap back to my happy home..headaches, depression and tears would follow...I started praying...I have peace now...still visit my parents and siblings--but I am now immune from their bad karma...good luck...U are loved!Health Question & Answer