Hopeless and depressed any help?!
Question: Hopeless and depressed any help.?
I am a really nice person and don't have any friends. The friends i do have are horrible to me and i don't really know how to act i always set myself up for people being mean to me, if i tell my mom she yells at me, i got invited to this halloween party and i really don't want to go because i really don't like anyone thats going and most of the people are the ones that were horrible to me. I already got a costume tho :[
i need some advice i am like depressed and have nothing to look forward to i find the negative in everyone and everything.Health Question & Answer
i need some advice i am like depressed and have nothing to look forward to i find the negative in everyone and everything.Health Question & Answer
Answers:
First of all, if the people are mean to you then don't go to the party. It's not worth it. You seem like too nice a person to have to deal with that sort of garbage. I too struggle with depression myself and am in a real state of it right now so I feel you pain. I know exactly what it feels like to look forward to nothing and see the negative in everything. My question is why do you think you set yourself up for people to be mean to you.? I ask because I seem to have this amazing knack to fall for people that treat me bad and push away the ones that treat me well. I do this with friends as well as significant others. I think it comes down to fear of attachment and being emotionally unavailable. Just a thought. God bless and take care. Health Question & Answer
How old are you.?
If you're still in school, can you talk to the counselor there and maybe having someone really listen to you will help you. And together you can maybe come up with some ways to feel better about yourself and your relationships.
Good luck!Health Question & Answer
If you're still in school, can you talk to the counselor there and maybe having someone really listen to you will help you. And together you can maybe come up with some ways to feel better about yourself and your relationships.
Good luck!Health Question & Answer
Well, that sucks really bad. Sorry.
I listen to music when I'm sad, such as UnderOath, Chiodos, Beneath The Sky, etc.
It sounds kind of lame but it works.Health Question & Answer
I listen to music when I'm sad, such as UnderOath, Chiodos, Beneath The Sky, etc.
It sounds kind of lame but it works.Health Question & Answer
Omg snap!
Im also really depressed :(
Although instead of my friends being nasty, there cool :) i just dont feel close to them sometimes.
I also like art too :)Health Question & Answer
Im also really depressed :(
Although instead of my friends being nasty, there cool :) i just dont feel close to them sometimes.
I also like art too :)Health Question & Answer
don't worry, i'm here with you.Health Question & Answer
My grammar is going to suck really bad right now because I am deeply stressed mentally and physically and upset at the same time so i won't seem to make much sense,anyway I'm going through the same also...I really don't know what to say to make things better since we're both on the same position right now...But what you're saying seems like no comparison to what i am in, I am in a way worse horizontal line than you are, i don't know what else youre dealing with right now but i'm going through hell with school, My grades are dropping, I have to correct my mistakes all over again until it's completely right, my classmates are jackasses ( 9 out of 10 are assholes that never helps me) I suffer from Depression, OCD, Schizophrenia, and Delusions right now. See.? You're lucky, you're not me or you'll probably kill yourself to escape out of this reality....I wish i was there or went to the same school to make you feel better, I am very apprehensive when I approach to people like you and help each other out.. I don't know why I always meet the good people so far away distances and never get the opportunity to be with them but my enemies are always closer to me...This world is becoming more corruptible and exacerbating than it already is today...I know....sometimes I feel like I want to get on an aircraft and drop a nuclear bomb on this entire world to wipe out the fiends and depend on the tenderness people instead.
and for my advice about your friends...
If your friends are neglecting you for shallow purposes, then there is no reason for you to be resuming your relationship with them.
it is not worth pampering these people, they haven't think about what they've done and when they do, they will regret it, I lost a total of 10 friends in the past because they hung out of with the people i have conflict with and they chose their side instead of mine so we were separated for good because i dont want to be in harms way if i am connected with them...You should join activities or something, meet new people, and you'll find a lot trust me.Health Question & Answer
and for my advice about your friends...
If your friends are neglecting you for shallow purposes, then there is no reason for you to be resuming your relationship with them.
it is not worth pampering these people, they haven't think about what they've done and when they do, they will regret it, I lost a total of 10 friends in the past because they hung out of with the people i have conflict with and they chose their side instead of mine so we were separated for good because i dont want to be in harms way if i am connected with them...You should join activities or something, meet new people, and you'll find a lot trust me.Health Question & Answer